Re: girl keeps texting me
heh, sometimes i'll hook up with a chick at or after a club who isn't good looking enough for me to be attracted to sober, but because i was drunk i got with her and gave her my #. When she texts or calls the next day I just say 'hey, i had a really fun time last night, but club hookups are kind of a "one and done" thing for me.' That way she doesnt take it personally but gets the message that I'm not lookin to hang out anymore.
If you like went out of your way to get with her and you actually see her on a regular basis, i guess just be like "hey dude, i had a great time gettin together with you, but right now i'm just tryin to play the field. gotta let a player play, ya know?" it might make you look like a womanizing prick, it might make it obvious you just used her, but at least it wont feel like a flat out rejection. sometimes you gotta just fall on the sword.