Ok so here is the mess I am kind of involved in at the moment. There is this girl who is currently dating one of my best friends (known the guy for 7 years). However, they are in a very unstable relationship and seems inevitable they will break up. Recently his girlfriend has been contacting me a lot and been very flirtatious. She is a cool person and I have always gotten along well with her. She is attractive and definitely my style, but I can't just continue to let this go on. I would date her or hook up, but i just dont know how to workout this situation. Say they do breakup within the next month, how would I even go about wanting to get with her without pissing off my friend. He has been in a relationship with this girl for like 3 1/2 months so not super long.
First off, you need to find out if your friend is applying the Franchise Tag. Without that information your working in the dark. You could pay a big price, but still get shot down. At that point you'll wonder...was the offer worth it? Because you know when your own player heres the contract offer he will be offended and may want to leave as well.
If you don't know if the franchise tag was applied yet and make a move, you could be burned by 2 players.
you got to look at the field before putting the offer on the table. you could be paying a premium price for the chic. test the market, and see if you can do better for a better price before putting a price tag on the chic. also you definitely need to know if your friend has a franchise tag on him. it could swing this deal a different direction.
also you have to find out if this chic is involved in some bounty investigation. you don't want to find out too late, and end up with dead expectations because she's grounded for being part of illegal actions.