In the past eras, it was fairly even if not slightly in favor of men
But in today's post women's sexual liberation era where infidelity and promiscuity are seen as female empowerment and "rites of passage" (I remember reading an article from a big time magazine about how you should sleep with at least 20 guys before settling down)
It's not even close
The rise of this so-called Incel culture is a resultant of this sexual cultural phenomena. Average and below average men upset that they are not getting a "fair" return on investment or equity/representation in the sexual market place.
In the past we had a socially enforced monogamy originally based in religious structures which has slowly been eroded away
Is it good? Bad?
Well it's bad for the average man looking for some sweet action.
But if you're a stud, top genetic material Chad? This is the golden era. Raises your glasses!
Women get hit on constantly, so it's natural that they would cheat more. If you have a girlfriend or a wife, do not think for one second that there aren't men out there right now staring her up and down and flirting/hitting on her.
Id say women cheat more thoroughly but not more often.
A woman in an affair that shit might be a full blown second relationship. Men are more likely to have a fling.
All modern times has done is level the playing field really. Men for thousands of years were not expected to be as faithful as women. Plenty of human history....a man ****ing some side ho was a non issue. A woman does it....she might be killed and the man gets away with it.
Women have become more outgoing with these things because the times allow it. But they arent any worse than men have always been. Probably still more prone to at least hide it and be somewhat ashamed.
Men have been keeping women on the side, ****ing whores, going to bath houses, getting jerked off during massages, getting their slaves pregnant, having harems of young girls, enslaving desperate girls from war torn countries for sex, having 9-25 wives, and having whole second families out of town for thousands of years. Women were treated like property most of human history and still are some places.
Women just started catching up in like....the 60s....and couldnt be open about it till the 90s....and only with social media did it get to be so easy.
Ever have a cute girl who is active on social media show you her inbox? Young girl I know posted a pic of her in a tight little dress for her birthday party and got like 20 guys in her inbox that same day. Multiple...used the same tactic. Did the rolling ball trick. Send a soccer ball emoji with a trail of dots behind it like its rolling. Send a message saying "Sorry....my ball rolled in here." and take it from there. Ive seen that message alone....3 times from 2 women who have shown me their inboxes.
A woman these days who is even halfway attractive can pick from 10-20 guys on her ass at any given time just off social media. Men given the easy access to dozens of women many of them cute or downright hot would **** a lot more of them than most women do.
Its right in their phones now. Dont have to sneak around and have conversation on lunch. No eyes on them. Just right there in their pockets all day.
All things considered a woman who ****s only 1 new guy every 3 months is doing WAY less than a lot of the men complaining about women would do given the same chance. But that woman might rack up a body count of 25-30 by her mid 20s and have people feeling like shes "smashed the city".
The days of a hot single girl having 1-2 partners before falling in love and being married at 27 are probably over. If they ever existed at all. Its too easy now. They want sex as much as men do and dont have to pretend otherwise anymore.
I have a friend who has cheated on his longterm girlfriend(pretty much wife) with 75-80 women since ive known him. She ****ed a police officer when they were briefly broken up and he wanted to go kill the guy. This guy was bringing a new woman to my house all the time. I had a nice fully finished basement with a good sound system and well stocked bar at the time. Little basketball court. Grill area. It was the hangout spot for my friends for a few years. Hes bringing a girl or two over there for drinks and hanging out all the time. ****ing these hoes in my yard in the car. has me playing drunk 2 on 2 with random women at 3am. He pretty much used one of my guest rooms as a hotel for 6-8 months. Hes at my house with strippers and hoes from Checkers or Mcdonalds. Hugged up on girls at cookouts. then brings his girl by and they are dancing to Songs in the Key of life like none of that shit happened. And she knew I knew all the dirt. All his friends did....so she didnt really care for us.
She steps out one time....when he told her he didnt wanna get married and threw the ring away at that. We literally have to explain to him why killing the cop who ****ed her was probably a bad idea. He nearly fought one of our friends for just pointing out his hypocrisy.