how subtle does an as* grab need to be?

[Jameerthefear]

i need a serious answer.

[B-Low]

In what context? Is the person ok with it? Is it someone you know that you're flirting with? Is it someone you know that you're playfully doing it to? A girlfriend in public? A stranger at a club that you're gonna make it seem accidental with?

[L.Kizzle]

Yeah, what B-Low said ...

[Jameerthefear]

Not exactly girlfriend but close to it. If that makes sense

[B-Low]

And where would you be? That makes a big difference

[embersyc]

Unless its a total stranger, or someone you just met at the club 10 mins ago, no reason to be subtle.

WTF kind of thread is this?

[Jameerthefear]

And where would you be? That makes a big difference

School. Probably in the hallways or something.

[L.Kizzle]

Do it while giving her a hug.

/thread

[B-Low]

Just do it playfully. Or like Kizzle said do it while you hug her. As long as you're not doing it all lustfully in front of teachers why would you have to be subtle about it? As long as the girl's cool with it, grab away.

[Jameerthefear]

Do it while giving her a hug.

/thread

what if i want it to be a surprise though. like i want to gauge the reaction.

[Jameerthefear]

Just do it playfully. Or like Kizzle said do it while you hug her. As long as you're not doing it all lustfully in front of teachers why would you have to be subtle about it? As long as the girl's cool with it, grab away.

I'm blaming you guys if this fails though

[ace23]

How awkward must you be to ask a question like this?

[embersyc]

I'm blaming you guys if this fails though

How could it possibly fail? Unless the girl has no interest in you?

[Jameerthefear]

How awkward must you be to ask a question like this?

this shit's not natural for me

[L.Kizzle]

How could it possibly fail? Unless the girl has no interest in you?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LBU5Yu6RFBY

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KzWronMcXR8

This could happen.