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Old 01-25-2009, 09:52 PM   #1
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Do you care about how many partners she had? Do you have a certain number in your head that would turn you off and would discourage you from marrying her? Or do you simply not care?

Just curious on the American point of view (and all other ones are welcomed as well.)
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Old 01-25-2009, 09:53 PM   #2
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Do you care about how many partners she had? Do you have a certain number in your head that would turn you off and would discourage you from marrying her? Or do you simply not care?

Just curious on the American point of view (and all other ones are welcomed as well.)


1.Yes
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3.I care

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Old 01-25-2009, 09:55 PM   #3
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1.Yes
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So you want to marry a virgin?
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Old 01-25-2009, 10:00 PM   #4
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So you want to marry a virgin?

He'd prefer it to be a 15 year old virgn...but he doesn't like the idea of moving to the Sudan.
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Old 01-25-2009, 10:03 PM   #5
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I thought you were african.
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Old 01-25-2009, 10:05 PM   #6
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Old 01-25-2009, 10:17 PM   #7
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First thing I thought of.
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Old 01-25-2009, 10:17 PM   #8
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Well, I'd prefer she doesn't remember the the year Columbus sailed the ocean blue by the number of dudes she's banged. Or if the number is more than her age. Which I'm aware is a complete double standard cuz I'm tryin to hit triple digits.

But, chances are, if you're that into a girl to consider her potential wifey, you'll probably waive certain criteria or look past certain things. For instance, my main girl has a son, and it's not mine. Usually that's enough for me to say, "Hey guys? Big Gulps huh? Aright. Welp, see ya later" because it can lead to problems with the child's father, all kinds of awkwardness, and being a step-daddy is wack. But, it doesn't bother me with her, because I actually like her like that, where I'm willing to deal with it and try to make it work regardless.
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Old 01-25-2009, 10:36 PM   #9
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Call me a sexist, a hypocrite or whatever you'd like, but I can't see myself marrying someone with more then one partner. I don't know if it's the culture difference or the way I've been brought up, but I refuse to marry an "experienced" girl. The thought of the mother of my children being ****ed by different guys just does not sit well with me. Imagine going to a social even and three different guys are like "yep I ****ed her."

Like I mentioned before I think its a cultural thing. Where I'm from, if people find out a girl has been with a few guys and they end up breaking up, she gets a bad rep and she's labeled a whore. Now does she deserve this title, probably not, considering a few partner does not make you a whore, but its just the way it is (truthfully having one partner before marriage is still looked down upon.)

In America, what is considered a whore? Of course there is a hypocritical way of thinking. A "player" and a "slut" are basically the same thing, but one is still looked down upon. However what constitutes a slut really? 5 partners, 20 partners, at that point what's the difference?
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Old 01-25-2009, 10:44 PM   #10
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So basically you hold women to a different standard. Not surprising considering your religion.
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Old 01-25-2009, 10:47 PM   #11
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So basically you hold women to a different standard. Not surprising considering your religion.

to be fair, he never said how many people he has slept with. he could be a virgin too, in which case he would be holding himself to the same standard.


as for me, i am engaged and my future wife has approximatley the same number as i do (not a lot) so it really doesnt bother me at all. i dont think i would be attracted to someone who has a high number of partners anyway- not into the skanky type.
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Old 01-25-2009, 10:58 PM   #12
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I thought you were african.

Surprising, you can be American and Muslim! AND African and American! AND African and Muslim! ANNNDDD Middle Eastern and Muslim! Weird, eh?!
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Old 01-25-2009, 11:06 PM   #13
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depends on the situation and how I feel about her...impossible to answer...

blowing 37 dudes is a HELL NO though...


With the complete joke that marraige has become in this country I am not sure it matters at all...

More people should just take the Bill Maher bachelor for life route instead of feeling the need to jump into a marraige just because they feel as though they have to...

good luck to anyone finding a virgin though...and good luck having any fun with her as well...
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Old 01-25-2009, 11:40 PM   #14
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i sure as hell don't want to marry a prude inexperienced chick... and that's all i can really say. everything else is situational.
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Old 01-26-2009, 12:17 AM   #15
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So basically you hold women to a different standard. Not surprising considering your religion.

Ha! Islam gives many rights to women. The culture in many Islamic countries denies them rights such as Saudi Arabia. Look at Pakistan they've had a woman Prime Minister...how many female leaders has America had??
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