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Old 08-10-2009, 10:04 PM   #16
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I know it's possible, but to fret and mull over how another guy get girls is retarded.
Define "fun" in high school. I think I had fun. I was involved in student council, school rallies, NHS, Key Club, and sports. I had plenty of girls around me due to school activities.
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Old 08-10-2009, 10:07 PM   #17
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I know it's possible, but to fret and mull over how another guy get girls is retarded.
Define "fun" in high school. I think I had fun. I was involved in student council, school rallies, NHS, Key Club, and sports. I had plenty of girls around me due to school activities.
Oh Hell YEAH student councit gets mad puzzy son! Key CLUB getz mad girls ur k00l d00d!

fyi playing the tuba in the school pep rally isn't what i'd call fun. stop hatin' and get money
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Old 08-10-2009, 10:08 PM   #18
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I spent my time in school trying not to fall asleep. lol

Pot makes you tired y'all.
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Old 08-10-2009, 10:09 PM   #19
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14 year olds have nothing to be motivated about except for not wanting their overbearing parents to spank them.

Hence why many great students become hacks later in life.
The fact that my parents were constantly telling me that I had to get good grades and get into a good college motivated me. I'm going to Stanford with a plan to go to medical school. Due to my hard work and motivation I even have a scholarship. I don't regret not having "fun" in high school.
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Old 08-10-2009, 10:10 PM   #20
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Oh Hell YEAH student councit gets mad puzzy son! Key CLUB getz mad girls ur k00l d00d!

fyi playing the tuba in the school pep rally isn't what i'd call fun. stop hatin' and get money
The girls in student council are ****ing hot and intelligent.
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Old 08-10-2009, 10:13 PM   #21
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the biggest and most correct point here is that you're 14 and not to worry about it too much.

beyond that, it's seldom all about looks, your friend probably has some essence that you aren't aware of. backbone or confidence or something that girls are picking up on. just comes easy to some guys, others have to work, still others plain fail. don't worry about your boy, get yourself right (not just at the gym, 14 isn't too young to think about what kind of man you want to be- not career sh*t, talking about your principals and standards) and they'll come running. also be funnier without trying too hard.
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Old 08-10-2009, 10:14 PM   #22
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If you really spent your high school years studying rather than having fun, you wasted what could have been one of the best times of your life
The fun you can have in HS is nothing compared to the fun you can have in college! Get to college, don't waste your time maxing out in HS.
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Old 08-10-2009, 10:15 PM   #23
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Think, people.
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Old 08-10-2009, 10:15 PM   #24
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Thanks guys. I guess I spent too much time wondering how he does it instead of doing it myself.
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Old 08-10-2009, 10:39 PM   #25
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you're from brooklyn, dude. your swag will develop naturally

but seriously, work on conversation/flirting skills. ever have a convo with a female that just pops? where you are both on the same page and it flows? you want to get that going. the trick is finding out what their passion is and working outwards from that.
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Old 08-10-2009, 10:43 PM   #26
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Maybe times have changed, but when I was 14 (I'm 17 now, so not that long ago), girls weren't down to do **** anyway, so there was no point trying to get them unless you were one of those dudes who liked relationships.

But just in case times have changed and 14 year olds are down to do ****, then I guess one of the reasons why your friend may be gettin chicks is confidence. Girls love a confident guy, as long as he isn't butt ugly.
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Old 08-11-2009, 02:01 PM   #27
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I have a friend who is semi-athletic, super skinny, who has short messy hair and crooked front teeth. He can't even talk to girls too well, yet almost every girl that we met likes him. How? I'm with him a lot, and he doesn't do anything special for the girls, he's not even nice to them. I'm not saying I'm the hottest guy out there, I'm not even close. At least I have a decent toned body (I hit the gym pretty hard 4 times a week), neat white teeth (I had braces and then I had my teeth cleaned and whitened), and I'm way more athletic than him (if that counts for anything.)

We're both 14, if that helps.

By they, I mean guys out there who are far from being attractive, not physically wise but personality wise too, get any girl they want.

The key is this: Confidence and not showing the girls too much attention....women live on attention....its like air to them....the guy probably is just so laid back and not the "focal point of the party" so to speak...and the chicks want to know more about him....

with women never show your poker face...keep them coming for more...you learn that and you'll be getting chicks everywhere...

also...there 14 year old girls....there *****n stupid...they dont know whats good for them yet!
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