Good Old Willy's Advice for the Young Bucks of ISH

[Good Old Willy]

A Man's good advice for the young bucks at ISH. Take it or leave it, whatever you want. But its all true.


- In the beginning the world is black and white. The more you look, the more nuances of shading become apparent. Eventually you will see so much complexity and diversity that only shades of grey exist. The wise man is flexible, but still knows where good ends and bad begins.

- "Good" is instructive, constructive. "Bad" is destructive. In nature it is easier to criticize, destroy, break or ridicule. It more useful to be a builder. Nature rewards builders with progress and procreation! Criticize the girl and her brother... or buy him game tickets and take her out for dinner. Who's building? Who is gettin?

- DNA, the basic building block of life is almost identical across all species on the planet. All of em. Plants included. We all come from one. Not only are humans descended from earlier mammalian lifeforms, but you share most of your core makeup directly with the trees and insects too. Suck it up.

- Girls really do grow more beautiful as they age. That average 16 year old? Just wait till she's 23 and you're still single... You'll have wished you were nicer and gotten better grades. Oh my goodness, Trust me on this.

- What you see in pornos is not real. Most of the sex related comments on ISH are dumb. Once you actually get a girl naked, you may be surprised at what she likes and doesn't. 99.9% girls prefer men who are caring, compassionate, careful, secure, kind, gentle. Once you can provide that, she might want to experiment a little differently... ;-)

- According to women, Number 1 sex mistake for men under 25: going too fast.

- According to women, Number 2 sex mistake for men under 25: thinking they are 'good'.

- Having a steady loving longterm girlfriend/wife is a wonderful, wonderful thing. The longer the better.

- 90% of women that graduate from highschool are highly attractive to men.

- Only 50% of men that graduate from highschool are highly attractive to women. So yes, its a competition and you are probably losing.

- Looking back 15-20 years on my highschool days. There is a direct correlation to how cool someone was, and how successfull they are in life. Inversely! Bunch of my nerdy friends are driving porsches, super fit, are decision makers in the news, have the house, toys, great wife, vacations, etc. Where are the drug using, wannabe jocks? Pumping gas, driving civics.

- The more I learn, the more I respect how much others know, and realize how little we all know.

- The Physical laws of this world are astounding. Among others, know that your universe is governed by the uncertainty principal. (damn!)

- 20 yr old Me vs. 30 yr old me. The 30yr wins it easily in every conceivable way. No contest. Smarts, physically, cash, opportunity, lifestyle, friends & family to rely on. There is so much that is now SO easy, so achievable, its amazing... *shakes head* In days of doubt think about that, and what's ahead.

- all of the mistakes you can possibly make, have already been made by others before you.

- Have a healthy dose of sceptism for anything and everything you see. Humans have all these etra senses. And a brain for thinking. Use em all, then decide.

- Sarcasm is the lowest form of humor. Sarcasim requires the least intelligence to employ.

- Those you love, trust completely. Give them everything they need.

- Humans often need different things than we call for.

- Believe in God

- ... and science. Soak up everything you can. If you for some reason do not like either God or those mathematical equations, then think of it this way. You have a lot to learn from your ancestors, family, and culture, and GOd is represented in those things. Do not discard God until you are ready to do so. You are not ready yet. Science is merly a broad term that describes everything around you. The more you study science, the less chance God will come down and smite you in dead in your sleep.

- There are lot of good books out there. Read em. Books are like cheating. You can learn all the toughest experiences and wisdom without having to go through all the painful processes. People that read diversely and deeply are valuable.

- Chopping wood - great manly exercise. And an artform. It takes years to get good. A generation to becomes an expert. Teaches you about the application of power not too much, not too little. Teaches you about angles - what to attack, where not to because you'll get caught. Teaches about endurance. Teaches you what hard work is really about. Gives you respect for your father's father.

- If you know when and how to sweat the details, you won't have to sweat the details all life long.

- Sport is good.

- Ignore the rude and foolish. You know who they are. They bring you absolutely nothing. Nothing. Just get you down. Ignore em. Leave em.

- Learn about at least one art form or become knowledgable about some type of artistry. It is afterall the pinacle of human achievement, and do yo wanna stay dumb and dirt low for ever? Personallly I could never get into paintingi much, but love carving and hand made stuff. It's fun to learn about wine for example.

[Bean]

Rep-worthy.

[-primetime-]

A Man's good advice for the young bucks at ISH. Take it or leave it, whatever you want. But its all true.


- What you see in pornos is not real. Most of the sex related comments on ISH are dumb. Once you actually get a girl naked, you may be surprised at what she likes and doesn't. [COLOR="Red"] 99.9% girls prefer men who are caringcompassionate, careful, secure, kind, gentle.[/COLOR], Once you can provide that, she might want to experiment a little differently... ;-)

whoooaaa

time out

I didn't read it all but let's start at #1.

I call BS

99.9%!?!??!?

Is Dallas the only city that has a legit amount of true "sluts"????

I might agree with 70%-80% or something....but not 99.9%

there are alot of girls out there that really just want to "c[COLOR="Black"]u[/COLOR]m"...multiple times

sluts are not an urban legend....some chicks really like getting "banged hard" (for lack of a better term)

ever been in a "sex shop"???....90% of the crap in there is for women to bust a nut with her man....those places don't make all thier money because women just want to cuddle dude...

sorry man...I feel this is very wrong

[v-unit]

Great post man.

I also don't agree about the woman comment but the message got sent.

[Phar]

Good post!

[B-Low]

Very good post. Definitely repped for that one

[Good Old Willy]

Thanks for the comments all. Hope a nugget or two might be useful. I have often gotten a little worried that our 15-17yr core might believe all the stuff the machos facades post.

:)

whoooaaa

time out

I didn't read it all but let's start at #1.

I call BS

99.9%!?!??!?

Is Dallas the only city that has a legit amount of true "sluts"????

I might agree with 70%-80% or something....but not 99.9%

there are alot of girls out there that really just want to "c[COLOR=Black]u[/COLOR]m"...multiple times

sluts are not an urban legend....some chicks really like getting "banged hard" (for lack of a better term)

ever been in a "sex shop"???....90% of the crap in there is for women to bust a nut with her man....those places don't make all thier money because women just want to cuddle dude...

sorry man...I feel this is very wrong

Not saying just cuddling. Violence is not sex for 99/100 women.

In my experience, I'll stick with the 99 / 100 women prefer a man who is "..."

Not saying everybody don't like a little action and fun! Hehehe.

But, what "you" a typical male defines as gentle is not the same thing that most women would believe. And those sex shops you speak of... I am sure you mean the ones where most of the store is devoted to vibrators and costumes? No violence there, and for that matter, not a lot of males required either.

Most women you will find, really feel they need to trust a guy before it goes anywhere. Maybe everyone you meet trust you? Props to you. you won't need my rep!

And no, pornos are only as real as WWE.

[-primetime-]

Thanks for the comments all. Hope a nugget or two might be useful. I have often gotten a little worried that our 15-17yr core might believe all the stuff the machos facades post.

:)




Not saying just cuddling. Violence is not sex for 99/100 women.

In my experience, I'll stick with the 99 / 100 women prefer a man who is "..."

Not saying everybody don't like a little action and fun! Hehehe.

But, what "you" a typical male defines as gentle is not the same thing that most women would believe. And those sex shops you speak of... I am sure you mean the ones where most of the store is devoted to vibrators and costumes? No violence there, and for that matter, not a lot of males required either.

Most women you will find, really feel they need to trust a guy before it goes anywhere. Maybe everyone you meet trust you? Props to you. you won't need my rep!

And no, pornos are only as real as WWE.

I am not saying "violence"...

and I agree that "most" women want a gentle loving man...

but I also belive that there is a decent percentage of women out there that do NOT want the man to be gentle at all...they want thier man to nail them in every which way hard until they explode...

IDK...I understand that the majority of women are looking for thier prince of romance or whatever...but there are also alot of chicks that are looking for someone to make them scream in bed...

similiar to a porn but without the "money shot"...

I will agree that 99.9% of chicks (even the sluts) don't treally want the "money shot" and if they do it is just an attempt by them to please thier man...

that overall point you were trying to make is valid I just think you should turn that 99.9% down about 20% or so....lets not pretend that slutty girls don't exist...

what do you think girls talk about at clubs when dudes aren't around???

the slutty chick in "Sex in the City" (don't know her name) really exists out there.

[Good Old Willy]

Good post!

Thanks for supporting.

Would have been funny if you had ripped me, and denied all. More bones for the savages.

[Heilige]

[B]- Looking back 15-20 years on my highschool days. There is a direct correlation to how cool someone was, and how successfull they are in life. Inversely! Bunch of my nerdy friends are driving porsches, super fit, are decision makers in the news, have the house, toys, great wife, vacations, etc. Where are the drug using, wannabe jocks? Pumping gas, driving civics.

How did your nerdy friends achieve this? What steps did they go through?

[ALBballer]

Primetime why do you have the urge to argue the smallest detail?

99.9% no way bro. Where did you pull that number out of your ass? It's more like 80% dude. Get your facts straight.

Who the **** cares? That's not what the post was about.

[-primetime-]

Primetime why do you have the urge to argue the smallest detail?

99.9% no way bro. Where did you pull that number out of your ass? It's more like 80% dude. Get your facts straight.

Who the **** cares? That's not what the post was about.

did you read this:

and I agree that "most" women want a gentle loving man...

that overall point you were trying to make is valid I just think you should turn that 99.9% down about 20% or so....lets not pretend that slutty girls don't exist...

I am just saying that 99.9% is not a "small detail"....it really says that sluts don't exist, and that is not true...

that's all.

I said the over-all point he was tryingto make was clear....didn't I???

[Chalkmaze]

Pretty good post for the most part except the god part, you have no right to be telling people they need to believe in god, and it's a very foolish statement to be making. Much of the rest of your post is highly debatable in areas, your stats for instance which are based off of your own isolated perception. Preachy post, sounding more like what you would choose to say to your children. There are many ways to raise and educate children, you have the right to raise yours how you want, but that doesn't make it the best way or most informed.

The basic message of the post is decent enough in comparison to most other ISH posts though, but you have a lot of life left to learn about things, there's so much of the world you are have obviously shied away from or been sheltered from, lots of things you have no ideas about. You're talking about your experiences and what you've learned and understand about your life thusfar, which is fine and good, but share your experiences, don't preach, and people may learn a bit from you.

[SoCalMike]

and of course, primetime comes in to destroy the thread with countless useless questions that argue minutia....

[GOBB]

and of course, primetime comes in to destroy the thread with countless useless questions that argue minutia....

"stop, you're trolling me! "