The problem with most people like the OP is that they overthink it. There is no set way to do anything, just go out there and be yourself and the results will come.
Everyone seems to think i have problems approaching girls cause I made this thread. I just asked how YOU approach girls.
I have some weird tendencies, like never offering to buy the first drink don't know why it just makes me feel like I'm going to fail .... I'm sure the girl doesn't get affected by this I think it's just me being superstitious
I truly believe the key is to not give a crap, when you truly believe the girl is on your playing field she will like you or Atleast want something ... But the biggest mistake people make it pretending you don't give a crap girls will see straight through it