Should I have slept with her?

[Nick Young]

This is exactly why our society will never function the way it should.

Sorry it's just the truth. If you expect everyone in society to have integrity and do the "right thing" all the time, you are naive and hopeless.

That's why all socialists/communists are naive and hopeless morons.

[Nick Young]

that's true, but that's also a big time gamble. It doesn't matter if OP goes about everything perfectly, it's the office girl that can make everything come down. Scary sh*t if you ask me.

Exactly, even if he does everything right, if the young woman goes nuts and catches feelings she can bring everything down. However its up to the OP to judge whether she's legit. Most chicks who get in to this kind of thing in the first place are nuts, but others are probably cool with it. Maybe office ho has done this loads before and would just f*ck him and peace out.

If that were the case, if I was OP I'd bang office slut if given the chance 10 times out of 10.

But again you're right, she's the wildcard here.

[Nick Young]

This nick young guy has absolutely no idea what he's talking about

You could learn alot from this Nick Young guy

[Fresh Kid]

you did tha right thing man. Especially since u have a kid and wife. I can relate to how pissed and hurt when my parentz divorced when i was 5 mainly cuz my mom found out that my dad cheated on her with a so called friend, I was young but I had a feeling something was wierd about tha situation when he always was with her all tha time had me watching ninja turtles in a room by myself while he and her went to tha other room by themselves. Yea man you did tha right thang, cuz that would of hurt your marriage and tha kid if your wife found out. I know u say you dont get that much excitement out of tha marriage, but try spicing it up man, do something extra special for her and she will return tha favor. you'll never know man.

[rufuspaul]

Thank God! I've spent years in therapy because I though I f*cked my aunt at a wedding.

[imdaman99]

Not trying to bust your balls but I find it funny how you always use to post about your wife and how great she is then you ended up cheating on her.

I think he used to do that because she was likely spying on his posts here

At least I hope so! At 1 point or another, I figured out my ex was googling my nick. I know she was checking my hotmail... I barely used that shit and she found out some shawty from another country was coming here to visit and wanted to chill (JUST AS FRIENDS). That shit was unhealthy and I eventually got the f out of it. It came to me having to filter my thoughts because she was googling everyday. I HOPE that's why Meti was doing it... lol although that shit ain't healthy

[Crown&Coke]

she works with you, that is too close to home (although I do not believe you should cheat on your wife)

Think about it, how easy would it be for someone to spill a couple beans and the whole house comes crashing down.

The simple question is, is it worth it?

That will answer your question, no one else can

[Mr. Jabbar]

had you slept with her you would have felt awfully bad and guilty the next day, and the day after it too, 3rd day tho all guilt is gone, works like a charm

[SUNNYSIDEUP]

Some very interesting replies, lol at the slow dance with the aunte.
If I slow danced with her in front of all the other wives people would be talking.

Another fact to think about is my marriage would survive regardless of a fling I might get caught for. It would be a little messy but it would survive.

She is not the type to go crazy and start yapping to the wife about anything.

Here is the kicker, she is going travelling in two weeks and will be gone for a long time. So the only repercussion would be on my conscience. However, I am not a liar and if my wife asked me straight up I would tell her the truth.

Shits not gonna happen anyways, just mulling it around in my head.lol

[longtime lurker]

If you're the type of guy that loves giving away half your money and only seeing your kids on the weekend then yeah you should have banged her.

[Fresh Kid]

Some very interesting replies, lol at the slow dance with the aunte.
If I slow danced with her in front of all the other wives people would be talking.

Another fact to think about is my marriage would survive regardless of a fling I might get caught for. It would be a little messy but it would survive.

She is not the type to go crazy and start yapping to the wife about anything.

Here is the kicker, she is going travelling in two weeks and will be gone for a long time. So the only repercussion would be on my conscience. However, I am not a liar and if my wife asked me straight up I would tell her the truth.

Shits not gonna happen anyways, just mulling it around in my head.lol

She might act like she don't care now but sooner or later down tha line she's gonna bring it up especially if shes mad at you about something else, but hey man its your choice, and lets say if tha gurl don't say anything to anybody you might feel guilty down tha line or start to like her a lot after you hit it especially if tha puhcee and her touches feel real amazing to you which could stir things up a bit.

[SUNNYSIDEUP]

Well that's the problem, I am already in love with her and I haven't even slept with her. The girl and I have been through lots of intense situations ( my job involves high risk situations). She is gorgeous, smart and very funny.

So there was the dilemma, but I chose to be faithful in the end.

[Fresh Kid]

Well that's the problem, I am already in love with her and I haven't even slept with her. The girl and I have been through lots of intense situations ( my job involves high risk situations). She is gorgeous, smart and very funny.

So there was the dilemma, but I chose to be faithful in the end.

oh i feel you on that, you still made tha right choice though at tha end of tha day.

[Mr. Jabbar]

More info is needed. Is your wife a bitch and your son a total tw*t?

lmao

[HardwoodLegend]

What's in it for the co-worker? You said she's going traveling in two weeks and will be gone for a long time, so why would she bang an old dude who's beneath her in the sociosexual hierarchy?

Do yourself a favor and watch the film 'Scarlet Street' to see why you did the right thing.