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Old 09-04-2006, 10:43 PM   #1
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Default How do you get a girl back?

I've been with her for over a year and she told me she thinks our personalities don't click. Why does it take a year to figure that out? We were really serious and in love (well maybe not her) and it just ended so quickly. Can people give me some advice without taking jabs at me? These are sensitive times for me. Thanks.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:45 PM   #2
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hmmm.... fishy
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:46 PM   #3
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Nice first post. I like all these relationship threads.

I'd say ask her for another chance. If she accepts and thinks work out, it's meant to be. If they don't work out on the second chance, than they're not. If she says no to the request for a second chance. Date one of her best friends, since she'll bring you up and hopefully she'll realize what she lost.

Just my 2 cents.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:47 PM   #4
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If she doesn't want to be with you, then why do you want her back? Is she rich or something, or amazingly hot?
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:47 PM   #5
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thats a hard one. Maybe try to find out if there was a little bit more than that meesly excuse.. sometimes there may be more to the story.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:47 PM   #6
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dude... your personalities click just fine. she met someone else. it probably won't last. when she dumps the other guy or when the other guy dumps her, then its up to you.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:49 PM   #7
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@ Coming to a basketball forum for girl problems


well i guess a relationship and basketball are sort of similar, you must value the ball and love the game right?
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:50 PM   #8
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Nice first post. I like all these relationship threads.

I'd say ask her for another chance. If she accepts and thinks work out, it's meant to be. If they don't work out on the second chance, than they're not. If she says no to the request for a second chance. Date one of her best friends, since she'll bring you up and hopefully she'll realize what she lost.

Just my 2 cents.
That's very good advice. I'm going to wait a little more for a miracle and if it doesn't work i'll ask out her friend just out of spite. I think it's too soon to ask her for a second chance. Oh and I want her back because if this doesn't work out im truely done with girls, for a very very long time. And of course I love here, don't know why I still do.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:51 PM   #9
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love and basketball is the key to my happiness.



and sex..


and weed...


and jennifer lopez
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:52 PM   #10
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dude... your personalities click just fine. she met someone else. it probably won't last. when she dumps the other guy or when the other guy dumps her, then its up to you.
Nope, that's not it. I found out through people that she's not with anyone.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:52 PM   #11
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my advice is don't go to a forum for help, however some guys here may be real love-doctors. I'd try a close friend or family member first.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:54 PM   #12
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my advice is don't go to a forum for help, however some guys here may be real love-doctors. I'd try a close friend or family member first.
I did, so far no good advice has come from them, well it didn't work.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:57 PM   #13
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Did you say/do anything out of the usual before she said that? Like really think back, maybe you did something that creeped her out or made her uncomfortable. Like did you guys make any major moves in your relationship lately?
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:58 PM   #14
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oh oh i got it! ...buy her something expensive , i mean be a pimp with this , get her something she just can't say no to and you'll have that girl back in no time.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:59 PM   #15
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Nope, nothing. She just decided out of nowhere that we are not meant for each other. Maybe something happened to her and she won't tell. How do you make them gain interest in you again?
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