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Old 09-04-2006, 10:21 PM   #31
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It can be so many things.

Another guy?

The sex was...bad? Or, she found better?

Her friends drove her away from you?
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:24 PM   #32
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It can be so many things.

Another guy?

The sex was...bad? Or, she found better?

Her friends drove her away from you?

1. Nope, no other guy, found out through friends.

2. She's a virgin and not about to lose it to anyone, fact.

That is a very good point, I was thinking about that. Do girls do that just because they hate that other girls are happy in relationships? Wouldn't be a bit surprised.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:25 PM   #33
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:28 PM   #34
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Yup, mine was over a year. Doesn't it take a week or two the most to realize that the personalities don't click? There must be more to this. And it was a very intense and serious relationships, no messing around, talking about engagement plans and marriage. happened?

Well, I'm guessing the two of you are a little on the young side. So if you are talking marriage you might have scared her away. Most guys never realize it until its too late but smothering a girl, being needy, clingy, and moving too fast are some of the most effective relationship killers.

The best thing you can do right now is be aloof. Act cool (if you can) and donít make it seem like you want her back. That is the best approach most of the time but there are also girls that like to be chased.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:29 PM   #35
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How long since she left?

Have you spohen to her after?
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:30 PM   #36
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spy on her for a day. talk to her fam about it.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:34 PM   #37
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Well, I'm guessing the two of you are a little on the young side. So if you are talking marriage you might have scared her away. Most guys never realize it until its too late but smothering a girl, being needy, clingy, and moving too fast are some of the most effective relationship killers.

The best thing you can do right now is be aloof. Act cool (if you can) and donít make it seem like you want her back. That is the best approach most of the time but there are also girls that like to be chased.
Yup, I realized ALL of that, but it's too late now. And she pushed the marriage thing more than I did I think. Well I'm 22 and she's 19, so young? Maybe, but not that young. I think she doesn't want to be chased at this point. I'm just scared, if I don't do anything, she'll never call back again and I can never say I gave it a shot, all this is so confusing. And it's been 3 days since she broke the news to me. I spoke to her afterwards but she just keeps spitting the same BS at me, "We don't click." Someone was watching reality date shows too much, that line is BS!!!
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1. Nope, no other guy, found out through friends.

2. She's a virgin and not about to lose it to anyone, fact.

That is a very good point, I was thinking about that. Do girls do that just because they hate that other girls are happy in relationships? Wouldn't be a bit surprised.

Yup. Also, because they dont like YOU. Or, they are hoes, and want theire friend to mess with as random and many guys as they are doing. FACT. I've experienced it. Not cool.
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Well, I'm guessing the two of you are a little on the young side. So if you are talking marriage you might have scared her away. Most guys never realize it until its too late but smothering a girl, being needy, clingy, and moving too fast are some of the most effective relationship killers.

The best thing you can do right now is be aloof. Act cool (if you can) and donít make it seem like you want her back. That is the best approach most of the time but there are also girls that like to be chased.

Yea. Guys dont know that some girls just want to **** around too. If you take things too serious, too quickly, she'll dip on you.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:36 PM   #40
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spy on her for a day. talk to her fam about it.

youve never have a girlfriend..... or youve dated your cousin.

you don't talk to her family... that will freak her out and piss her off, she wouldn't tell them whats going on anyway.
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you don't talk to her family... that will freak her out and piss her off, she wouldn't tell them whats going on anyway.

i thought about that after i said that. What i actually meant is ask the family if anything has happened lately. But that still may not be subtle.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:40 PM   #42
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spy on her for a day. talk to her fam about it.
Why would I spy on her for a day? I know she's not messing with nobody. And that's pretty much the only thing that's keeping me cool right now. And talking to her family won't accomplish anything. This isn't a 18th century relationship where the dad can hold a gun to her head and force her to be with me.
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Talk to people that are directly in her life, taht you are semi-cool with. Maybe, and I know it must hurt to hear this, but maybe she thought you were someone that she really liked...but you weren't?

Or maybe it was too serious for her.
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Old 09-04-2006, 10:47 PM   #44
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I talked to her best friend's BF and that's how I found out she's not going out with anybody. The only thing she told her friend is that she thinks we are not meant for each other. And that came only two days after she cried out of happiness because I went on a short vacation and she hadn't seen me during that time. And no nothing happened with another guy when I was gone, I find out everything she does through people.
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Dude, you are obviously mental if you are posting for help with your gf here... geez!
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