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Old 03-08-2009, 02:40 AM   #1
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Default Another Gay advice thread....

Theres a girl that I wanted about two years ago.. I figured at some point it wasn't gonna happen so I gave up... a year later one of my buddies nails her and they start dating..


About 5 months ago they break up... tonight is the second night I see her since and I get with her.. a bunch of my friends see us leaving together... I try to play it off like it was all her.. I tell them I'm just going home.. but they know... they all say, "man, just go for it"... and I do.. and I succeed...



What do I do about my friend? Should I tell him? It seemed like such a great idea at the time and its only about a half hour later now and I'm stuck.
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Old 03-08-2009, 02:42 AM   #2
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Default Re: Another Gay advice thread....

do you feel a real attraction to this girl relationship-wise or do you just see her as a quick hook-up?
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Old 03-08-2009, 02:43 AM   #3
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yeah just tell him, that type of **** doesn't matter 6 months from now
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Old 03-08-2009, 02:43 AM   #4
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Default Re: Another Gay advice thread....

Before my friend went out with her I felt like she was the kinda girl I could date..


and now I can't see that happening just cuz of him.. but if I were to imagine him out of the picture I could still see it.. it's just the thought of one of my good buddies disapproving that kills me.
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Old 03-08-2009, 02:44 AM   #5
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Default Re: Another Gay advice thread....

the gay advice is break the news to your friend by having sex with him too
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Old 03-08-2009, 02:45 AM   #6
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Default Re: Another Gay advice thread....

and dude it also really depends on how they broke up and how close you are to the friend. if it broke up because she was a total ***** to him and did some messed up stuff then you should probably take that into consideration before getting into a relationship with her.

on the other hand, if they just mutually broke it off and aren't on bad terms, then it should be okay in my opinion
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Before my friend went out with her I felt like she was the kinda girl I could date..


and now I can't see that happening just cuz of him.. but if I were to imagine him out of the picture I could still see it.. it's just the thought of one of my good buddies disapproving that kills me.
It'd be a big deal if it was the dudes wife or some ****. They only dated for 7 months or so? Just be up front with yer dude but if you're into her, go for it.
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Default Re: Another Gay advice thread....

Thanks guys.

I appreciate what you're all saying, but we live in a pretty small place where everyone knows everyone else, so it just makes every little thing a lot more complicated.

I guess I should probably just tell my buddy what happened and see where it goes from there. He's half my size so the worst that will happen is he gets mad and I just step on him haha
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Old 03-08-2009, 02:56 AM   #9
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Default Re: Another Gay advice thread....

haha good luck dude, i agree with marlo. if you really like her then it's always worth a shot. hopefully you won't lose a friendship out of it, but if he gets that upset over this then he probably isn't much of a friend anyway
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Theres a girl that I wanted about two years ago.. I figured at some point it wasn't gonna happen so I gave up... a year later one of my buddies nails her and they start dating..


About 5 months ago they break up... tonight is the second night I see her since and I get with her.. a bunch of my friends see us leaving together... I try to play it off like it was all her.. I tell them I'm just going home.. but they know... they all say, "man, just go for it"... and I do.. and I succeed...



What do I do about my friend? Should I tell him? It seemed like such a great idea at the time and its only about a half hour later now and I'm stuck.

your friend should be down for the cause. If he isn't call him out, the rest of your boys will take your side.
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Old 03-08-2009, 11:35 AM   #11
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the gay advice is break the news to your friend by having sex with him too
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Old 03-08-2009, 12:26 PM   #12
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Default Re: Another Gay advice thread....

Lol, you don't care about advice. You just wanted to brag about boning a female. Nonetheles I give you e-props.
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