Some of you already gave me advice about this a couple months ago.
My girl was confused about us and we broke up and crap.
Anyways we are "friends" right now and I told her that I'm only doing the friend thing to see if the sparks fly again because she says that part of her still wants to be with me and loves me as a boyfriend. We've been doing the friend thing for about a month now and she says that the BF love is slowly but steadily growing.
It's very frustrating because behind closed doors, she does everything we used to do while we were together (cuddle, hug, sex, shower together, nap on my chest) but when we go out in public it's like she doesn't want anything to do with me besides getting piggyback rides and having me do ***** **** which I do not do anymore because I tell her, "I'm not you're BF no more, you do it yourself."
Anyways, she says she's still confused and is basically putting me in the position that if I move on and get with another chick that my second chance is gone, so she's tying me down. And yes, I was moving on and she found out I was talking to this other girl and that me and this other girl were about to be sexual active LoL and she called me and was pissed and drove by throwing all my **** in my yard and didn't talk to me for two weeks and when she did she says she was mad because I said I still love her and I was like, "WTF, if you get this pissed about me moving on then be with me." We made up over that **** and the month has been 90% good.
Everybody says that shes lucky that I'm still around through all this and people tell me that they can tell that she still has feelings for me although she says nothing about it (actions speak louder than words right?)
But we talked the other day and she said that if she sees me mostly as a friend but even just a little like a BF (like right now) then she won't give it another chance which is making me think about just moving her out of my life because if she isn't willing to take a chance on love and go through all these other scumbags in the World before finding somebody as genuwine and loyal as me than it isn't worth it but my gut feeling is that this is just a summer thing and a big reason this is going on is because she is unemployed and would rather focus on that than this **** although she says she thinks about it all the time and even told me that a few times she has had days where she thinks about telling me that we can get back together.
Give me advice pimps!
Break if off with her. Move on with your life if you're looking for a relationship with her. It isn't going to happen. If a girl is going to be with you, they're going to be with you, not give you excuses on why not to be with you.
Yeh it's just that most guys I know would be happy to have less of the relationship stuff as long as they could keep the sex. But I guess not everyone is like that.
She won't respect you as long as you let her use this. If you man up, you might be able to get your dignity back and still get the girl since she might start to look at you as a man, although nine times out of ten, once a girl makes up her mind about you, it's made up forever.
She won't respect you as long as you let her use this. If you man up, you might be able to get your dignity back and still get the girl since she might start to look at you as a man, although nine times out of ten, once a girl makes up her mind about you, it's made up forever.
You've never had your girlfriend attack you while in the heat of an argument?
Women like strong men, if you're going to sit there and take her yelling and slapping you without doing something she will see the ***** in you.
Im not advocating physical violence on women but in some cases a good push or slap goes a long way to strengthening your relationship.
You're a douche bag. lol
If my girl came at me, I'd grab her little wrists and walk her back to a safe position. Possibly would take it has she's just horny and pin her against the wall and get my game on. lol
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