Here's some advice coming from a man who's been married for nearly six years....
Get a good lawyer.
Seriously though, in my married lifetime I've already seen 3 couple marry and seperate during that time. Marriage is a commitment that's give and take. It's exciting to get married but to stay married is a different thing. I strongly advise going through marriage counselling first. get the skeletons out of the way and find the holes and patch them up before you may encounter then at the wrong time.
But in any case, congrats. Love your wife and family first.
We were lying in bed, talking about how much we love each other, blah blah, blah. And I was like, "why don't we get married?". She's like "OMG, baby, yes, yes, yes".
Something like that.
Originally Posted by catzhernandez
Known her since I was 11. Went to school with her for years. Forgot about her in highschool... then looked her up on facebook last year, we hung out, we began dating, went thru a lot of rough times, but here we are. We know everything about each other. I can be my worst around her.
this sounds like a mistake...
live together for a year first...see if you both still feel the same
don't mean to bring the thread down but this type of stuff is why marraige is a joke in this country...
Couples who lived together before marrying have nearly an 80 percent higher divorce rate than those who did not and they seem to have less regard for the institution, according to a study of Swedish women by the National Bureau of Economic Research here.