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Old 08-13-2010, 04:47 AM   #1
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Default Ex Girlfriend Getting Married

Saw my former girl around town, asked her whats new in her life and she told me she's getting married. Nice looking ring, its a guy I knew but went to a different high school then I, looks happy.

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It was a terrible break up. Things were thrown, curses yelled, dragged on for months and months (quite a bit of which made it on to ISH cause she started "checking up on me" and such).

Anyways, that was months ago, she told me two weeks ago. I got a formal invite in the mail today. Im more then a bit shocked cause... well duh... but there was a hand written letter asking me if I would come from her. Seemed sincere.

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I'm right for deciding not to go, right?

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Old 08-13-2010, 04:49 AM   #2
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The break up was "months ago"?! And now she's getting married?

Lol.

Don't go.
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Old 08-13-2010, 04:50 AM   #3
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Default Re: Ex Girlfriend Getting Married

yeah and it sucks seeing them move on so successfully. I'm bitter I want them to be more miserable than me and regret the fact it didnt work out...oh well, wish her best of luck but don't show up unless you're dating a smoking hot chick u can parade at the wedding, make her wear white too fukk it, take all the attention away from her....
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Old 08-13-2010, 04:50 AM   #4
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Default Re: Ex Girlfriend Getting Married

Yeah, you don't have to go. She did the right thing inviting you. But I think you don't really have to go.

It's the kind of thing you respectfully decline.
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Old 08-13-2010, 04:55 AM   #5
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Yea... that's what I figured. I kinda get the feeling that she maybe invited me hoping that I wouldn't show up or would say no, so it would be a shame if I disappointed her on that count.
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Old 08-13-2010, 05:02 AM   #6
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Yea... that's what I figured. I kinda get the feeling that she maybe invited me hoping that I wouldn't show up or would say no, so it would be a shame if I disappointed her on that count.

you forgot to reply to the more important question.

you just broke up with her months ago and shes getting MARRIED already?!?!

this chick is headed for divorce, go to the wedding cus your bound to get a few more booty calls down the road if you attend
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Old 08-13-2010, 05:06 AM   #7
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nah you can't go. i'm surprised you got an invite, but it was only meant as a token thing. a few months after another serious relationship is an awful short time. even if you're over her, do you really want to see her get married? a friend of mine recently got married and we decided that he shouldn't invite his ex-girlfriend who he'd known all his life and is still good friends with, just out of some weird code of respect for the bride. it made sense at the time.

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the girl i always had a thing for got married a few months back. we grew up together and always had amazing chemistry and there was mutual interest and it came close to being something amazing so many times. only she always had that "safe" boyfriend. i only found out through the newspaper. made me sick to my stomach. i didn't get an invite, but i'm glad i didn't. i took it as her acknowledgement that us talking would only lead to trouble, and that was enough for me. still, now i have that "the one that got away" story i hoped never to have. reading that announcement and seeing that picture made me truly understand for the first time how a man can be utterly destroyed by a woman, and can continue to destroy himself by drinking himself to death if he lets himself.

sorry to derail with my own story. you just got me thinkin and damn you!
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Old 08-13-2010, 05:07 AM   #8
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Just a question man, was she a Mormon too? I've always found Mormon weddings to be pretty damn cool, and I was just gonna say that if she was in your ward and what not you probably should suck up and your pride and go. Show that you've gotten over that portion of your life, and that you've grown up since then.
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Old 08-13-2010, 05:13 AM   #9
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Yea Brooks, I guess I don't really want to see that. It wouldn't do her any good... and it certainly wouldn't do me any good. The only thing I want to know is whether or not she would have told me if I hadn't of run into her.



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Old 08-13-2010, 05:27 AM   #10
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this invitation is a "in your face invite"
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Old 08-13-2010, 05:28 AM   #11
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I would show up

Drink all the alcohol,try to score me some single ***** who knows maybe there's some weed there
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Old 08-13-2010, 05:31 AM   #12
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That's a tough situation. I personally wouldn't go, but I would call or write back and wish her good luck.

I can't imagine that happening to me. I'd get all depressed for a while.
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I would show up

Drink all the alcohol,try to score me some single ***** who knows maybe there's some weed there

lol I know you calmed down and actually try to contribute to ISH nowadays and stopped posting u mad pics, but man, you're a dumb a$s...and im not trying to diss you, you just come across as a huge tard.
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Old 08-13-2010, 05:39 AM   #14
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Yea Brooks, I guess I don't really want to see that. It wouldn't do her any good... and it certainly wouldn't do me any good. The only thing I want to know is whether or not she would have told me if I hadn't of run into her.



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Well then you're certainly not obligated on that front. In that case, it really comes down to you man. If you're not comfortable with it and there's no one else who's gonna be there that you want to see and hang out with then I definitely wouldn't go. As Pete said, do the polite thing and write a letter back or at least give her a phone call saying that you can't make it and what not. She was probably just doing the polite thing by inviting you, so at least extend the courtesy back by saying that you can't make it for whatever reason.

Still, I'd consider the possibility that she might be trying to extend an olive branch out to ya, but considering that it's only been a few months, I can definitely understand not being totally over it at this point in time.
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go if you got nothing better to do, get some free food have some drinks
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