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Old 10-18-2014, 10:33 PM   #1
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Default Should I date this girl or not?

Okay, well I worked with this girl for quite a while, at first I thought the girl was way out of my league, she was out of my league. But I started to get a lot more self confidence (probably because I started working out all the time), and out of nowhere she just started to seem really interested in me, I didn't even really do anything special...

Anyway... we've been talking off and on for a little while, and it's pretty obvious she really likes me, but the girl wants me to drop some of my close friends for her? What do I do/say here? She is a beautiful girl, but that type of ultimatum is a big red flag to me IMO. Any healthy relationship should have both to me.

How should I go about that? We've been talking enough that both of us are starting to get a bit attached.
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Old 10-18-2014, 10:34 PM   #2
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Lol she already trying to control you
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Old 10-18-2014, 10:35 PM   #3
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Anally bang her. And jizz in her a-hole or I will
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Old 10-18-2014, 10:36 PM   #4
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Lol she already trying to control you

Yeah, it does seem pretty controlling... I mean I guess I could bang and get out but then god knows the wrath would be when I decide to dump her then... she is cute, but that kind of behavior is pretty alarming... I'm sure I sound like a little bitch, but it's a hard thing to do when you started to get a little bit attached to an extent... but I have to tell the girl that her behavior is not acceptable. It probably won't end pretty, but I have to deal with it...

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Old 10-18-2014, 11:38 PM   #5
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post a picture of her.
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Old 10-18-2014, 11:52 PM   #6
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Default Re: Should I date this girl or not?

Red flags are a flying. Do NOT ignore them.


You're allowing your little head to cloud the judgement of your big head.


You've just been talking and she already wants you to drop your friends for her? Come on now.
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Old 10-18-2014, 11:57 PM   #7
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That's her in the middle. She's pretty cute, the options in my town are so limited because my whole town is around 22,000 people, and when you account my age group, there isn't a lot to chose from. I know the other 2 guys that have a chance with her, but her behavior just isn't acceptable to me.

I agree, there's a lot of red flags, but a lot of girls are just like this here. So I don't know.

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Red flags are a flying. Do NOT ignore them.


You're allowing your little head to cloud the judgement of your big head.


You've just been talking and she already wants you to drop your friends for her? Come on now.

Did you go to Magruder or north high?
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Old 10-18-2014, 11:59 PM   #9
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That's her in the middle. She's pretty cute, the options in my town are so limited because my whole town is around 22,000 people, and when you account my age group, there isn't a lot to chose from.

I agree, there's a lot of red flags, but a lot of girls are just like this here. So I don't know.

Where are you from? And she's making you drop friends, but shes taking pictures with trannies?

So because other girls are like that there, it's okay? Are you alpha or beta

I say pursue. And bang the hell out of her, i mean DOMINATE her. and she'll wash your laundry and cook your breakfast
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Old 10-19-2014, 12:02 AM   #11
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Where are you from? And she's making you drop friends, but shes taking pictures with trannies?

So because other girls are like that there, it's okay? Are you alpha or beta

I say pursue. And bang the hell out of her, i mean DOMINATE her. and she'll wash your laundry and cook your breakfast

That was just something she had posted, I didn't take that. And no it's not ****ing okay, but all girls my age here are dumb and immature and it's a small town of 20,000 people, NOT a lot of options regarding women here. I would bang the **** out of it though, but her problem is that it seems like she just wants any guy in her life to drop all their friends for her.

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Old 10-19-2014, 12:04 AM   #12
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That was just something she had posted, I didn't take that. And no it's not ****ing okay, but all girls my age here are dumb and immature and it's a small town of 20,000 people. I would bang the **** out of it though.

Where do you live dawg? And why do you sound like you're looking for a relationship. The primary focus and objective under 30 years old needs to be getting laid. You'll be tied down later. stop over thinking it. I think she's pretty cute and i hope you dominate her and let her know who wears the pants. Get that bitch to cook for you.

p.s. just realized you live in utah. dawg please go to college and GTFO of there. You haven't seen real women until you go to california. HEAD WEST
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Default Re: Should I date this girl or not?

How does a girl that likes you have the nerve to ask you to drop close friends for her? What's her reasoning? Is it because they are bad influences or stoners that encourage you to get high?

From my experiences, when a girl has liked me, she has tried to appease me in every way possible if you know what I mean.
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Where does a female that looks like that come off making demands? American women these days...
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How does a girl that likes you have the nerve to ask you to drop close friends for her? What's her reasoning? Is it because they are bad influences or stoners that encourage you to get high?

From my experiences, when a girl has liked me, she has tried to appease me in every way possible if you know what I mean.

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