In short, no ladies ever throw themselves at me unless they were drunk, I always have to do shit like invite them over to cook dinner or watch a movie but once alone it is game over.
So I do have to do alot to get them, I dont like planning shit and cooking and dating, I wish I could be one of those guys who just goes to a place with ladies and leaves with one 10 minutes later, but Im not. The ladies like me but I have to work harder than I want to seal the deal with them.
I've noticed that I as I get closer to my 30's that I start to get attention from the older and younger ladies as well. I think if you're a guy who maintains himself properly (i.e. dresses well, keeps in general shape, and likes to smile and talk), you should have no problem being popular with girls of any age-range.
You need to let girls know your not that guy, if a girl wants to talk about her guy problems with you tell her to go find a gay best friend to hang out with.
I use to be that guy too, until one day I realized how much of an idiot I was, and I said "Screw this." And the next girl that came to me whine about their problems to me, instead of "What's wrong?" It was...