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Old 12-21-2010, 05:50 AM   #1
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Alright so i like went through a stretch of no ***** for a bit so i started talking to this one 'bigger' girl because it seemed like she was down to hook up. After like a week I hooked up with her and now I really dont want anything to do with her. I guess you could say I used her.

Anyways, now she keeps on texting me asking to like hangout and stuff, and almost guilt tripping me a little bit.
I cant straight out be a d!ck and ignore her because we have many mutual friends (smallish town).

what would you recommend I do in this situation?
She just asked "so when we hanging out?!"
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Old 12-21-2010, 05:53 AM   #2
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You dun goof'd.
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Old 12-21-2010, 05:54 AM   #3
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I hope you pulled out.
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Old 12-21-2010, 05:57 AM   #4
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If you aren't back to getting laid by chicks you really want then I would hesitate to blow her off. Lay some ground rules and make sure she understands you're not looking for a relationship. If she is game to be a fb then you're good, but you better move quickly to find someone or resign yourself to porn because she is going to soon to be dropping hints that you and her are an item and all your boys are going to have some good ammo to clown you with.

Side note: how good she is in the sack should also play a part in your decision considering your drought.
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Old 12-21-2010, 05:58 AM   #5
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i know i fukced up Im actually pretty pissed.
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Old 12-21-2010, 06:04 AM   #6
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Just don't really respond to her texts, and when you finally do say "I'm busy that day."

If she's the obsessive type that non-stop texts your phone, and can't take a hint.. say "Honestly, I don't really like to text/use the phone unless I really need to/it's an emergency. So just talk to me when you see me in person."
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Old 12-21-2010, 07:52 AM   #7
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"tell that b*tch to hoe up or blow up"
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Old 12-21-2010, 08:55 AM   #8
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Lay some ground rules and make sure she understands you're not looking for a relationship.



This. I generally let it be known from day one with women like this, that im NOT looking for a relationship. It'll clear up any "confusion" the woman may have....and if it doesnt, then it gives you the exit you need if she is too clingy to say "hey, this isnt working, we're done"


Gotta keep it real with the ladies man.
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Old 12-21-2010, 08:58 AM   #9
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Been there bro. Changing your number gets annoying, but you may have to do it a few times in your life.
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Old 12-21-2010, 09:05 AM   #10
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Default Re: girl keeps texting me

depending on who your wireless carrier is you can get specific numbers blocked so they can no longer call/text your number.

I had to do this once to an old childhood friend who'd become a crackhead and was constantly calling me to ask for money, etc. I tried to help but but he would call me every other day asking for this or that, calling me at 10 at night wanting me to drive to his apartment to bring him smokes, or loan him more money.

I tried just ignoring the calls but after a while it started stressing me out so I had a block put on his number.
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Old 12-21-2010, 09:10 AM   #11
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lol how fat is she, just a little thick or a true round mound?
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Old 12-21-2010, 09:11 AM   #12
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Go watch Seinfeld, you'll get your answer.
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Old 12-21-2010, 09:17 AM   #13
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Default Re: girl keeps texting me

Try and hook her up with a buddy. That's what I'd do. Hang out with her and push her and a friend together than next time you talk to her be like we should keep what we did under wraps, wouldn't want so and so getting turned off by the idea.

Or just flat out ignore her and everytime she texts came out with an excuse.
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Old 12-21-2010, 11:35 AM   #14
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Normally, straight up ignoring her would do the trick. But since you decided to bang a fat chick with whom you share friends, that may not work. Looks like you're gona have to talk to her and tell her what's what.
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Old 12-21-2010, 07:32 PM   #15
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Am I the only one dying to see pics of this "bigger" girl?
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