Knowing your girlfriends sexual past, good or bad idea?

[Ne 1]

Originally Posted by Myth

It's a lot easier for a girl to find 80 partners than a guy. A girl could go out to a club any night and get f*cked if she wants.

Exactly.

And why some women can't understand this simple concept has always baffled me. Men have to compete with one another to get picked as a mate or sexual partner. They have to display that they have the best genes or the most value. Women have to compete to with one another, but only for the BEST male. They can have sex any time they choose and can pick any mate they want, just not always with the best choice. However if they were to lower their standards as men have to do, they would get to pick from a long line of men. "Getting laid" is not something that can happen every day for the average guy. He has to navigate the maze of a women delicately in social situations to convince her he's the best pick. If a woman goes to a bar, night club or even a dating website looking for sex, and only wants sex, she will have ZERO problems getting it. Therefore, over time, women have gained negative connotations, because they are not "beating anyone" or doing anything remotely impressive, they are simply manipulating basic human biology for sexual gratification. And thus, terms such as "slut" and "whore" were manifested. I didn't even need to go into this long winded rant to make my point- think female prostitution. Is there a reason the porn industry is so huge but only for the male population? Is there a reason female prostitution is a global epidemic, but you don't hear problems about male prostitution? Why a female prostitute/female escort can make quite the living, while male prostitution isn't very profitable for the average guy?

Originally Posted by DropStep

The number of girls/boys someone says multiply/divide it by 3. If its a guy, take the number of girls they said and divide it by 3, if it's a girl take the number of guys and multiply if my 3.

Yes, listen to the guy that relies on American Pie 2 for knowledge.

80 isn't that many if you travel and never commit. I would expect a chick that is 28 that has never been in a serious relationship to have many partners. Maybe not 80, but who really cares what the number is. As long as they were safe, it's all good fun.

[LJJ]

Originally Posted by Overdrive

Don't know if that's a real question or a hypothetical one, but for in case:
Usually a girl doesn't go from 80 cocks to a single one.

You could argue the other side you know.

That a girl who has been around knows what she wants, while a girl with very limited experience will start to get the hunger.

[dude77]

Originally Posted by Raz

Yes, listen to the guy that relies on American Pie 2 for knowledge.

80 isn't that many if you travel and never commit. I would expect a chick that is 28 that has never been in a serious relationship to have many partners. Maybe not 80, but who really cares what the number is. As long as they were safe, it's all good fun.

wow

[Riddler]

Originally Posted by Raz

Yes, listen to the guy that relies on American Pie 2 for knowledge.

80 isn't that many if you travel and never commit. I would expect a chick that is 28 that has never been in a serious relationship to have many partners. Maybe not 80, but who really cares what the number is. As long as they were safe, it's all good fun.

Are you serious?

80 isn't that many for a 28 year old chick?



Anyways... I guess if you've been with the chick for three years and your dick hasn't fallen off yet...
it might not be such a big deal, but before you enter into a serious relationship... you might want to do a little interrogating.


I've had my fare share of women... and I always bring this topic to the table within the first week or two...
and it's not always because I'm concerned, sometimes there just isn't anything else interesting to talk about...

Sex is a fun subject to bring up when you're having a boring conversation.



I usually work my way into the "NUMBER" question... I don't just flat out ask "HOW MANY GUYS HAVE YOU F*CKED?"

it usually goes something like this:

"Ever been with a black guy? Ever hooked up with a chick? Do you still know the exact
number of guys you've been with (if not, can you give me an estimate)?"

[dude77]

let's do the math .. 80 by the age of 28 .. that's 8 every year since age 18 .. that's ****ing 1 guy about every 1.5 months for 10 yrs straight .. na not much at all

this 18 yr old told me she had fked 12 guys in the past year(she was a virgin the year before) .. so that actually means about 20 guys in a year .. that's more than one guy every month she was fking .. and then she told me this gem .. she said she wanted to fk 100 guys by the age of 32 .. said she wanted to 'have fun while she was still young' .. say you're in your 30s and you meet this girl after she's done with her 'adventure' .. you'd be proud to bring that home to mama raz ?

[Riddler]

I try to hook up with chicks that have been in long term relationships...

If a woman's (age 25-35) longest relationship is only a year or two...
something is probably wrong with her, and more importantly...
it usually means she's slept with a lot of dudes.

If you're hooking up with chick that's been in a 7-8 year relationship...
Unless she's a cheating scandalous whore, it usually means the number
of guys she's slept with is pretty low.

Originally Posted by dude77

let's do the math .. 80 by the age of 28 .. that's 8 every year since age 18 .. that's ****ing 1 guy about every 1.5 months for 10 yrs straight .. na not much at all

this 18 yr old told me she had fked 12 guys in the past year(she was a virgin the year before) .. so that actually means about 20 guys in a year .. that's more than one guy every month she was fking .. and then she told me this gem .. she said she wanted to fk 100 guys by the age of 32 .. said she wanted to 'have fun while she was still young' .. say you're in your 30s and you meet this girl after she's done with her 'adventure' .. you'd be proud to bring that home to mama raz ?

I wouldn't care. It depends on the person they are today. I know I have been with quite a few people, so I can't judge. If I could erase some of them, sure, that would be great. However, it's all a learning curve - helped me to be the man I am today.

8 people a year is not that many.

[The Macho Man]

Originally Posted by Riddler

I try to hook up with chicks that have been in long term relationships...

If a woman's (age 25-35) longest relationship is only a year or two...
something is probably wrong with her, and more importantly...
it usually means she's slept with a lot of dudes.

If you're hooking up with chick that's been in a 7-8 year relationship...
Unless she's a cheating scandalous whore, it usually means the number
of guys she's slept with is pretty low.

You sound like an insane person.

[-p.tiddy-]

Originally Posted by Riddler

Are you serious?

80 isn't that many for a 28 year old chick?



Anyways... I guess if you've been with the chick for three years and your dick hasn't fallen off yet...
it might not be such a big deal, but before you enter into a serious relationship... you might want to do a little interrogating.


I've had my fare share of women... and I always bring this topic to the table within the first week or two...
and it's not always because I'm concerned, sometimes there just isn't anything else interesting to talk about...

Sex is a fun subject to bring up when you're having a boring conversation.



I usually work my way into the "NUMBER" question... I don't just flat out ask "HOW MANY GUYS HAVE YOU F*CKED?"

it usually goes something like this:

"Ever been with a black guy? Ever hooked up with a chick? Do you still know the exact
number of guys you've been with (if not, can you give me an estimate)?"

yeah I agree, the "number" is bound to come up in conversation one way or another just due to talking about sex and past sexual experiences with a girl...it's kind of unavoidable unless you just keep that subject hush hush altogether

[Riddler]

Originally Posted by The Macho Man

You sound like an insane person.

okay?


Let me clarify:

On the dating website that I use to go to...

The profile would state what the woman's longest relationship has been.


For example:




This chick is 29 years old and the longest relationship she's been in is under a year.... I'll pass.

Originally Posted by The Macho Man

You sound like an insane person.

He also sounds insecure.

[DaHeezy]

If she's sticks around after sleeping with 80 doods you must be a champ in the sack. Just make sure she's not targeting 80 more.

Personally I'd rather know that detail than finding out she had slept with a close friend before I had met her.

[The Macho Man]

Eye color? Do people really give a shit about eye color?

[-p.tiddy-]

Originally Posted by Raz

He also sounds insecure.

how is that?...he is making perfect sense to me