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Old 08-16-2012, 12:19 PM   #76
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okay?


Let me clarify:

On the dating website that I use to go to...

The profile would state what the woman's longest relationship has been.


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This chick is 29 years old and the longest relationship she's been in is under a year.... I'll pass.
yeah she is insane or weighs 300 lbs...one or the other

if she had her shit together she would have been a few long term relationships...
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Old 08-16-2012, 12:22 PM   #77
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yeah she is insane or weighs 300 lbs...one or the other

if she had her shit together she would have been a few long term relationships...

Probably the brown eyes, who wants to see brown eyes for more than a couple months.
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Old 08-16-2012, 12:22 PM   #78
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so raz you'd be ok with marrying a porn star or an escort .. taking her as your beloved wife .. that's crazy shit .. to each his own
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Old 08-16-2012, 12:24 PM   #79
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He also sounds insecure.

what part of my post made me sound insecure?... please explain.
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Old 08-16-2012, 12:25 PM   #80
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how is that?...he is making perfect sense to me

It's clear he has issues with how many dicks have been in a woman. He's obviously worried how he will measure up and/or whether she will stick around.

Some people just don't enter long term relationships until they find the right person. One of my good friends was single until 28, notoriously single. She met a guy she finally liked (liked all aspects of him) and now they're married. She had a bit of a sordid past (quite a few sexual partners) but she's as honest as they come and does not mess around.

A lot of you sound insecure - searching for virgins. You may as well all convert to being Muslims.
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It's clear he has issues with how many dicks have been in a woman. He's obviously worried how he will measure up and/or whether she will stick around.

Some people just don't enter long term relationships until they find the right person. One of my good friends was single until 28, notoriously single. She met a guy she finally liked (liked all aspects of him) and now they're married. She had a bit of a sordid past (quite a few sexual partners) but she's as honest as they come and does not mess around.

A lot of you sound insecure - searching for virgins. You may as well all convert to being Muslims.

has nothing to do with being insecure and everything to do with the chick having self respect .. if she doesn't have any self respect as a lady why should I respect her ? in fact, that's just it .. I won't respect her if I know she's stuffed 80 different cocks into her mouth .. bitches who go around sucking every guy's dick are trashy and not worthy of being made into a wife .. of course though .. there will always be some sucker out there who will marry them after they've been used up like a cuum rag ..
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Old 08-16-2012, 12:38 PM   #82
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so what's the story op .. is this person you or what's the deal
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Old 08-16-2012, 12:41 PM   #83
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It's clear he has issues with how many dicks have been in a woman. He's obviously worried how he will measure up and/or whether she will stick around.

Some people just don't enter long term relationships until they find the right person. One of my good friends was single until 28, notoriously single. She met a guy she finally liked (liked all aspects of him) and now they're married. She had a bit of a sordid past (quite a few sexual partners) but she's as honest as they come and does not mess around.

A lot of you sound insecure - searching for virgins. You may as well all convert to being Muslims.

there is nothing insecure about wanting a girl that doesn't have a damn sex addiction...
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Old 08-16-2012, 12:52 PM   #84
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It depends.. Only advice I ever give to other dudes on the subject is

"Don't ask questions if you don't really want to hear the answers"

If you can handle it? go ahead and ask


If you can't? acknowledge that and don't ask.. If you trust her, then that's what is important.

When you cant' handle it, you f*ck your own head up by finding out thing s you don't need to know.

Women do things.... don't doubt it.. but you don't always need to know everything

Reminds me of that Chris Rock joke: "No matter how many she says, to us it's always going to be too many. "TWO! Well I guess that's how you were raised"
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Old 08-16-2012, 12:55 PM   #85
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It's clear he has issues with how many dicks have been in a woman. He's obviously worried how he will measure up and/or whether she will stick around.


I'll admit that I might feel a little insecure if the girl I'm with has f*cked 80 black guys before me... Maybe then I'll be a little worried if I "measure up".

Also... I remember learning about STD's in High School... You must have skipped class that day. (That's the main reason I want to know my partners
sexual history).

And most of the women I date want a serious relationship... I'm the one
that's trying to keep things casual...
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Old 08-16-2012, 12:56 PM   #86
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has nothing to do with being insecure and everything to do with the chick having self respect .. if she doesn't have any self respect as a lady why should I respect her ? in fact, that's just it .. I won't respect her if I know she's stuffed 80 different cocks into her mouth .. bitches who go around sucking every guy's dick are trashy and not worthy of being made into a wife .. of course though .. there will always be some sucker out there who will marry them after they've been used up like a cuum rag ..

Do you hold the same standard to men? Are you from the bible belt?
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Old 08-16-2012, 01:04 PM   #87
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Do you hold the same standard to men? Are you from the bible belt?

I personally do. To give an arbitrary number of what's more acceptable, perhaps 20-25 at most for me - this applying to both guys and girls.

Not to say that I hold sex sacred or overly value sex, but to me a girl (or guy) that's slept with ~80 guys DOES make me uncomfortable. Whether it be because of fears of measuring up, uncomfortable with the idea she's just straight up been with so many guys, jealousy.

I think it's perfectly reasonable for any guy (or girl) to feel like that when a prospective girlfriend/boyfriend has been with 80+ people, it feels like that they don't hold at least some sort of standard for giving it away and that they don't value their bodies somewhat (not saying that this is the case, but human nature would incline most to feel this way).

Since you're so liberal on the idea of sexual partners - would you be the kind willing to date/marry porn stars and prostitutes or is that a different scale.
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I think for me at my age for a woman

1-10 partners = inexperienced
10-20 partners = normal
20-30 partners = a little more than average
30-40 partners = "been around"
40+ = will likely cheat on you eventually, possible sex addiction
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Do you hold the same standard to men?


why would I feel the need to ?

you liberals/feminists crack me up ..

contrary to what y'all have been brainwashing the masses with for decades now .. men and women are not equal .. not the same .. not anything .. so we are not going to have the same standards

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Old 08-16-2012, 01:27 PM   #90
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A lot of you sound insecure - searching for virgins. You may as well all convert to being Muslims.

No one said anything about virgins. Every guy expects a girl to have a past but 80 different partners is a shit load especially while still in the 20's. There's being insecure and then there's identifying a pattern and seeing a problem. I think 80 dudes falls under the latter.

I would say the same about a guy having 80 different women. I have two buddies that are like that and try to increase their number every chance they get. After seeing them with so many different girls I always feel bad for the next, and they probably don't come close to 80 combined.
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