there was really no closure, she just dissappeared. about a year after that she instant messaged med on aim asking me how i was doing, i didnt reply, mainly because i still was not ready to talk to her. now 3 years later im thinking about messaging her maybe getting some things off my chest or maybe just have a mutual talk so we dont hold on to any animosity. should i IM her or no?
i would if the oppurtunity presents itself..but i wont be the one reaching out lol. i just checked her fb page, looks like she has a cute kid i was wrong i think it was like 4 or 5 years ago since we broke up lol
oh btw, dont talk to her if you think your life sucks more right now compared to when you were with her
i would if the oppurtunity presents itself..but i wont be the one reaching out lol. i just checked her fb page, looks like she has a cute kid i was wrong i think it was like 4 or 5 years ago since we broke up lol
oh btw, dont talk to her if you think your life sucks more right now compared to when you were with her
nah, my life is alot better than what it was when i was with her. thats why i can think about initiating contact with her at this point. but maybe she still thinks im a loser.
i dont, thats the only avenue i have to speak with her. so ill sign on to see if she is on. not sure why she is on anymore. Shes online right now, tonight is probably the only time i would consider speaking to her online.
I still occasionally use AIM. I actually kind of wish more people still used it. I very much prefer it to Facebook Chat and their messages telling folks when messages were seen by the other person, the disconnections, and auto-store of everything said all the time.
there was really no closure, she just dissappeared. about a year after that she instant messaged med on aim asking me how i was doing, i didnt reply, mainly because i still was not ready to talk to her. now 3 years later im thinking about messaging her maybe getting some things off my chest or maybe just have a mutual talk so we dont hold on to any animosity. should i IM her or no?
Depends if you're happy with where your life is at the moment. Do you really gain anything from talking to her? Sometimes these things can stir up old feelings and leave you wanting to get back with her when that ship has well and truly sailed.
On the other hand, you might talk to her and realize you're well and truly over her.
My ex called me Saturday telling me the guy she cheated on the guy she cheated on me with was abusive and she was leaving the relationship and wants to talk. Always knew she'd come back (we were engaged), and knew telling her to kick rocks would be the hardest thing to do (it was), but you gotta have some self pride and stay away.
My ex called me Saturday telling me the guy she cheated on the guy she cheated on me with was abusive and she was leaving the relationship and wants to talk. Always knew she'd come back (we were engaged), and knew telling her to kick rocks would be the hardest thing to do (it was), but you gotta have some self pride and stay away.
My ex called me Saturday telling me the guy she cheated on the guy she cheated on me with was abusive and she was leaving the relationship and wants to talk. Always knew she'd come back (we were engaged), and knew telling her to kick rocks would be the hardest thing to do (it was), but you gotta have some self pride and stay away.
thats horrible dude. never take someone like that back. you did the right thing. hopefully it felt good to tell her that too.
Should i talk to my EX after 3 years?
