I'll read those two later posts but I can't believe I missed the OP.
My buddy's gf's brother is sorta going through something like you. Makes great money working as the head guy at MorganStanley in town. Got divorced recently. Bought a porsche. And is dating a porn star who turned 21 this past week and is going to school at the local college. She flys out to LA from time to time to film. She's ok with him ****ing her porn friends and her college friends. Even went to the playboy mansion on NYE and ended up doing coke off of porn star's asses at a hotel. And the porn star is apparently quitting and going to grad school for him.
Great story Thorpe. I missed it initially because I peruse off the court irregularly. My best friend lives in Bridgeport (I live in Manhattan) I go to Foxwoods and AC semi regularly (never been a big fan of Mohegan) but I'm nowhere near the gambler you are. I only play Black Jack and have a 500 dollar limit. At any rate, you seem like a good guy who did more than right by this chick. If she's dealing with this total scumbag, trust me you don't want to go there. Some chicks just won't appreciate a "good guy" and that's just the way it is. No matter how good you are to them, and no matter how much you try to show them. You're better off trying to tap that 24 year old (fkks wrong with you??) and maybe seeing that Russian chick again. Don't waste any more time on this other broad, regardless of how much of a "connection" you think you could have wit her.
you sound balling and young, in the 80th percentile at least
That's a fair question. I do find myself unusually fixated on her. Particularly with the second rediculously hot chick just sort of throwing herself at me. And frankly I should be more focused on Anna the blonde russian chick, but again, her being in Manhattan just makes it undoable for me.
Maybe it's because I have a thing for asian girls. But I believe it's far more her personality.
I go back to the room, spend 8 dollars on an orangina from the mini bar, fill up my ice bucket, and pour in the Orangina and a liter of Vodka, and proceed to drink it out of the bucket.
That's some Sideways shit right there.
Also I do think you have beginnings of a novel if you feel you flesh out the details and atmospherics more.
I can't believe you told your friend's wives this story. Though I guess you're more willing to share than I am.
Am I the only one who finds this whole saga damn depressing?
I don't find it so much depressing as just inexplicable. I can't say as I've ever been in the same situation, but I have been a part of incidents where broads are just acting normal one minute and thrust you into absolutely crazy situations the next. I can say that I wouldn't have put up with even a tenth of what Thorpe did, would have quit the situation, and never returned any phone calls/texts of any of these crazy bitches.
A word of advice, Thorpe: Anyone who knowingly puts you in a situation where you will obviously be an outsider, uncomfortable, and exposed that type crazy shit happening around you, DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU. These women may very well like you but it's obvious none of them respect you, because if they did, they wouldn't subject you to this shit. Simple as that.
Not to pile on, though. It's obvious you're lonely and in need of someone you can share your life with, and there's no shame in that whatsoever. But these crazy bitches aren't it. All of these rationalizations and thoughts of infatuation are just ways of you trying to escape a Saturday night by yourself. These girls will never be what you want them to be. It's like trying to stop the Titanic from sinking by bailing water out with a bucket.
And I'm a mech engineer for a small family manufacturing company in the aerospace industry. I was a math major, and really good at it. I have a minor in psych. I do ok. I make 115 - 125K a year, depending on how we do which determines the year end bonuses. I rent half a duplex at the moment, but I'm house hunting, so my savings is in pretty good shape.
You've got to stop being so nice. I hate to say it, but you sound like a sucker. You almost bought this chick a dog when she already had one, just because she said she would pay you back.
I don't find it so much depressing as just inexplicable. I can't say as I've ever been in the same situation, but I have been a part of incidents where broads are just acting normal one minute and thrust you into absolutely crazy situations the next. I can say that I wouldn't have put up with even a tenth of what Thorpe did, would have quit the situation, and never returned any phone calls/texts of any of these crazy bitches.
A word of advice, Thorpe: Anyone who knowingly puts you in a situation where you will obviously be an outsider, uncomfortable, and exposed that type crazy shit happening around you, DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU. These women may very well like you but it's obvious none of them respect you, because if they did, they wouldn't subject you to this shit. Simple as that.
Not to pile on, though. It's obvious you're lonely and in need of someone you can share your life with, and there's no shame in that whatsoever. But these crazy bitches aren't it. All of these rationalizations and thoughts of infatuation are just ways of you trying to escape a Saturday night by yourself. These girls will never be what you want them to be. It's like trying to stop the Titanic from sinking by bailing water out with a bucket.
I appreciate the advice, and I don't think I'd deny your observations at all. But taking a stab like this is sort of how you figure this shit out.
The fact is is that the Tattooed girl is has her own issues, but he treatment of me has been if anything too nice. And the Russian girl has also been great. The only one who's put me through the ringer has been Ai, and it was really only the one night. I could have been more agressive, and more of an asshole, but that wouldn't have made things any better. At heart I'm a pragmatist, I dealt with a bad situation the best I could and moved on. I tried to reconcile for a couple of days, then walked away, and just happened to bump into them this weekend. Again, I could have been an asshole, but that's just not my thing. I was polite, managed to tell her what I wanted to tell her, and left.
I appreciate the advice, and I don't think I'd deny your observations at all. But taking a stab like this is sort of how you figure this shit out.
The fact is is that the Tattooed girl is has her own issues, but he treatment of me has been if anything too nice.
You call bailing the night before something you were very much looking forward to and shorting you on plane tix you bought for her as "too nice"? There has been a lot in your story so if I have that mixed up let me know.
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I could have been more agressive, and more of an asshole, but that wouldn't have made things any better.
The fact that you think that YOU could have possibly been the asshole in that situation is telling; once she puts you in a f*cked up position like that any reaction you may have is justified. These girls are twisting your mind to where you're wondering what's wrong with yourself. When you're the only normal one in the bunch.
And I don't doubt these girls will keep calling you. They know you're the only guy they know that will treat them with respect. Like I said, these girls definitely like you, there's no denying that; and although I'm not in your shoes, from what you've said I feel with a fair degree of certainty that these girls don't care about you.
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Re: My Foreign Girl Experience (Long)
