*** I hate being insecure. But I also hate being the second guy, the fall guy, the sweetheart.
My Fallguy senses told me to come into this thread and offer relationship advice. Those who remember back in the day know its not because of any positive experience
Anyhoo, the best thing you can ever do is not give a *insert noun of choice*. If you really want to jangle her keys, ask her to hook you up with one of her friends. If she doesn't mind, let her go completely. Otherwise she will be jealous, and that can only lead to good things.
unless slashed tires are a bad thing...
Thanks for ur response btw.
I'm not just in it to ***. That's the difference. I think i can wife up this broad in the future.
We connect so well and compliment each other. She's just not willing to commit to a rel because of her past.
And yes I'm catching feeling. But *** I should have read the bb thread before doing what I just did.
If she said this she's probably fcukin wit someone else and your the other ni99a she's stringing along just in case that other ni99a don't want her
You right. 100%. I made it worse too by the text I just sent her. Mehn wtf is wrong with me?
Like I said I'm gonna back off and withdraw my self subtly. One difficult things is to not make it obvious cause I always send her gm texts.
But as u said I need to back off and reflect upon myself.
Or should i be blunt and stop sending gm texts? i think i should. sometimes being obvious is better than subtility
Honestly stop texting her and stop hitting her up because you already F'ed up by showing her you care more than she does. Thats a 100% guaranteed trip to the friendzone (which really just means your the guy she's gonna go to for emotional support and favors that she can't get from other guys without having to give up the goods)
Remember a desperate man is a man no woman wants. Not even the hit ones
If she is not in a relationship with you and just wants to f*ck you then that says it all there. She's prob a slut who is sleeping with multiple men. Play along or find somebody else.
I don't do fk buddies though. That shit isn't me. I'm falling for this girl so either I end it completely. I can't watch her get involved with someone else right in my presence. That shit doesn't bold well with me.
She called me tonight, I confronted her and she kept deferring. Till Lo and behold o boy is calling her again and I get hung up for him. Mehn I'm done. The emotional toll this shit is taking is too much. Idc anymore. I paniced an hour later. Left her a msg that I'm done.
Sorry I didn't listen 2 u guys step by step. But it's very easy to say what someone should do. Than being in the situation yourself and actually doing it.