I still want to hit it though. so you right. be friends. but i can't tell her i want to be just friends. but pull away, act uninterested. thing is, she finally buying her own house. So I can actually have more access to her. That's why I want my decision to be calculated. The puss*y is good. And she finally gonna live alone. That could mean more puss*y for me. I don't want to cut off all contacts and lose that.
If you want to hit it just ask her
But in reality if you do have sex with her you are not going to be friends anymore and chances are she's still coming back to him in the end.
Or worst case scenario she'll say no and you won't be friends anymore.
So if you like her just be friends with her and move on. I would recommend you not to talk or see her again for a week until you move on. That separation should give you all the time you need to get over her and just be friends.
I hate to say it Bladers, but niko has a point. He is using "tough love," and I think it is the only way to get through your infactuation. nathanjizzle is also right: she's using you as a pawn, and if she is taking you out to all those fancy dinners, she's prob thinking to herself, "Why am I always paying for this broke n*gga when I could be with someone else who pays for me."
Money is as important as looks and having a big d*ck and it looks like you are getting beat in all those categories. Best thing to do is cut it off with her, stop getting jealous, take some time to improve yourself, and come back when you KNOW you are better than your competition.
Actually I'm the one who pays for it all. Pretty much everything gas, dinner, hotel room, whatever..
it was working. she threatened to leave.. then i panicked. told her i loved her.
Ypu idiot. You just Lost any leverage you had. Honestly you are just going to fall into obscurity while she had sex with with multiple men. The only way I see her getting with you is when she gets fat.
Dude just don't talk to her for a week at least no text no call no emails no nothing and act like she doesn't exist. If she goes and meet you just tell her you don't want to talk to her for a while a d thats it. She is not getting with you. Just accept it.
Now 2 things can happen, she's going to keep calling until one day she goes and meet you and tell you she loves you or she's going to give up after approximately three days. Then you will know she was not meant to be.