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Old 03-16-2013, 05:00 PM   #31
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Ask her if she would like a cuckold slave. You would provide for her, be emotionally available for her, sexually pleasure her with your tongue, and she would go on dates and fukk other guys and tell you about it when she got back home. From reading your posts in the past months, it honestly sounds like this is something you want. Start jerking off to cuckold porn to get your mind acclimated to the inevitable
The only viable and practical resolve to OP's problem considering his character and what he wants to accomplish.
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:05 PM   #32
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For acouple months But not anymore and u just found out that the reason is cause she talking to another guy and pretty much your time with her is dictated by the other person's work schedule.

Now you barely get in 1 hr a day and even then it's silence and she ain't making no conv and u do all the work.

But u still hitting it like once a month.

And you really really liked this girl and u guys hit it off initially and connected.
What do u do? She knows u know but do you confront her about your time with her being dictated on his unavailability?
Sounds like she's bored of you and looking for something better. You aren't boning her well enough. Bone her better.
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:24 PM   #33
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How much effort do you have to put in to be able to hit that once a month or whatever? If it takes too much effort it's not worth it. If you can sorta stay on her radar but not have to invest too much time in it, ie doing favors etc, then do that. Nothing wrong with being a booty call for a hot chick. But don't let it get to a point where it's dominating your schedule. Keep your pride man.
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Old 03-16-2013, 07:24 PM   #34
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I still want to hit it though. so you right. be friends. but i can't tell her i want to be just friends. but pull away, act uninterested. thing is, she finally buying her own house. So I can actually have more access to her. That's why I want my decision to be calculated. The puss*y is good. And she finally gonna live alone. That could mean more puss*y for me. I don't want to cut off all contacts and lose that.
If you want to hit it just ask her

But in reality if you do have sex with her you are not going to be friends anymore and chances are she's still coming back to him in the end.

Or worst case scenario she'll say no and you won't be friends anymore.

So if you like her just be friends with her and move on. I would recommend you not to talk or see her again for a week until you move on. That separation should give you all the time you need to get over her and just be friends.
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Old 03-16-2013, 07:47 PM   #35
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I hate to say it Bladers, but niko has a point. He is using "tough love," and I think it is the only way to get through your infactuation. nathanjizzle is also right: she's using you as a pawn, and if she is taking you out to all those fancy dinners, she's prob thinking to herself, "Why am I always paying for this broke n*gga when I could be with someone else who pays for me."

Money is as important as looks and having a big d*ck and it looks like you are getting beat in all those categories. Best thing to do is cut it off with her, stop getting jealous, take some time to improve yourself, and come back when you KNOW you are better than your competition.

Actually I'm the one who pays for it all. Pretty much everything gas, dinner, hotel room, whatever..
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Old 03-16-2013, 09:08 PM   #36
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OMG OMG OMG THIS SHIT WORKING

She just sent me like 8 texts in 30 seconds.
She called multiple times i didn't pick up. thats after going out with me niggahs and picking up females and i posted it on facebook.

but i chickened out and replied her.
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Old 03-16-2013, 10:49 PM   #37
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it was working. she threatened to leave.. then i panicked. told her i loved her.
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Old 03-16-2013, 10:54 PM   #38
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You sure get a kick out of fabricating scenarios for attention.
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Old 03-16-2013, 10:56 PM   #39
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it was working. she threatened to leave.. then i panicked. told her i loved her.


man you are a crash test dummy... do what Niko said and fall back.


Stop acting like a clown.. Relationships are partially about the hunt. make her come and get you. No chick likes a insecure needy knucklehead.

Don't call her or text again, until she gets at you.. its that simple

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Old 03-16-2013, 11:00 PM   #40
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Move on
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Old 03-16-2013, 11:01 PM   #41
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Blader's Imaginary girlfriend.

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Old 03-16-2013, 11:56 PM   #42
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You sure get a kick out of fabricating scenarios for attention.

Would totally post a pic of my text msgs but don't want to for my protection.
Last time i did with the girl victoria, i was made fun of and the pic made rounds around ish.

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Old 03-17-2013, 12:02 AM   #43
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Last time i did with the girl victoria, i was made fun of and the pic made rounds around ish.
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Old 03-17-2013, 08:27 AM   #45
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Gosh I'm a train wreck
The worst case scenario is playing out right now
Instead of me cutting contacts with her. She doing it to me and I look like the b*tch trying to reestablish it.

But none the less I have strong feelings for her. I just have to figure out how not to let my feelings dictate my play. Mehn it's so hard.
She ain't ur average girl.

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