For acouple months But not anymore and u just found out that the reason is cause she talking to another guy and pretty much your time with her is dictated by the other person's work schedule.
Now you barely get in 1 hr a day and even then it's silence and she ain't making no conv and u do all the work.
But u still hitting it like once a month.
And you really really liked this girl and u guys hit it off initially and connected.
What do u do? She knows u know but do you confront her about your time with her being dictated on his unavailability?
Sounds like she's bored of you and looking for something better. You aren't boning her well enough. Bone her better.
How much effort do you have to put in to be able to hit that once a month or whatever? If it takes too much effort it's not worth it. If you can sorta stay on her radar but not have to invest too much time in it, ie doing favors etc, then do that. Nothing wrong with being a booty call for a hot chick. But don't let it get to a point where it's dominating your schedule. Keep your pride man.
I still want to hit it though. so you right. be friends. but i can't tell her i want to be just friends. but pull away, act uninterested. thing is, she finally buying her own house. So I can actually have more access to her. That's why I want my decision to be calculated. The puss*y is good. And she finally gonna live alone. That could mean more puss*y for me. I don't want to cut off all contacts and lose that.
If you want to hit it just ask her
But in reality if you do have sex with her you are not going to be friends anymore and chances are she's still coming back to him in the end.
Or worst case scenario she'll say no and you won't be friends anymore.
So if you like her just be friends with her and move on. I would recommend you not to talk or see her again for a week until you move on. That separation should give you all the time you need to get over her and just be friends.
I hate to say it Bladers, but niko has a point. He is using "tough love," and I think it is the only way to get through your infactuation. nathanjizzle is also right: she's using you as a pawn, and if she is taking you out to all those fancy dinners, she's prob thinking to herself, "Why am I always paying for this broke n*gga when I could be with someone else who pays for me."
Money is as important as looks and having a big d*ck and it looks like you are getting beat in all those categories. Best thing to do is cut it off with her, stop getting jealous, take some time to improve yourself, and come back when you KNOW you are better than your competition.
Actually I'm the one who pays for it all. Pretty much everything gas, dinner, hotel room, whatever..
it was working. she threatened to leave.. then i panicked. told her i loved her.
Ypu idiot. You just Lost any leverage you had. Honestly you are just going to fall into obscurity while she had sex with with multiple men. The only way I see her getting with you is when she gets fat.
Dude just don't talk to her for a week at least no text no call no emails no nothing and act like she doesn't exist. If she goes and meet you just tell her you don't want to talk to her for a while a d thats it. She is not getting with you. Just accept it.
Now 2 things can happen, she's going to keep calling until one day she goes and meet you and tell you she loves you or she's going to give up after approximately three days. Then you will know she was not meant to be.