I have a situation. I've been dating this girl for 7 years. I really think I want to marry her and I told her so. Well now she is getting a bit too comfortable in the relationship.
The other night, we were getting it on, and the bed f*cking broke. The next morning, through a bit of digging, I found out she weighs over 200 pounds now. Keep in mind, she was a sexy 140 when we dated.
So how exactly do I tell her to lose weight. That was like a $400 bed set and I can't afford buying new beds. That's as bad as the time when I bought the first set of Xbox 360s and they would only last for a couple of months.
How do you tell a girl to lose weight without offending her. She knows she's fat, I know she's fat, all her friends know she's fat, heck, even her dead auntie is visiting her in her dreams telling her she's fat, but it's just a topic of conversation I just can't bring up directly.
I still love her, but damn, she needs to lose a few pounds because that love is going to dwindle when another expensive bed set is broken. Sorry if I sound superficial, but this is a serious problem in our relationship.
LMFAO 200lbs? Holy shit.. You should go for runs and suggest she comes with you. Or start going to the gym and make up some shit about how it would be fun if she went with you. Do things together and it'll help encourage her.
whoa when I read the title i was gonna say something along the lines of "youre a douchebag, you shouldnt care blah blah blah" but gaining 60 lbs is crazy.
Do you weigh a lot? maybe she feels like she can get away with it.
The best way is to offer to do a "couples fitness/yoga/pilates" course together or something, like make it seem like you want to spend more time with her. I'm sure if you can find out a way to find out her weight then you can figure out a way to ask her
I remind my girl probably once a week to stay fit. I don't let her eat junk food, and if we're out to eat she can have good food obviously, but I won't let her order soup, an appetizer, entree and dessert. I tell her how I don't tolerate that and won't have a fat girlfriend. It's in her head now.
i refuse to be one of those dudes in public with his girl, and she eats more than me, or just course after course of already super fat restaurant food. Females are tiny dude, all they need is a salad with some chicken in there. Anything else is over eating.
Girls want to look good for their men but if you ain't laying the law down or making her feel sexy, this is what happens.
Just tell her that she's overweight but don't tell her she's fat though. Or heck just tell her that you're both getting fat and you both need to go to they gym and eat healthier because you want to spend more time with her when you both get older.