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Old 03-25-2013, 10:26 PM   #61
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Although, I'd argue that if you are truly secure with your relationship, you'd keep that part in mind long enough to not go bang some slut.

yehh that's fair to say, personally i walk away from these kinds of situations from time to time because in my opinion i don't believe the slut can give me more satisfaction then my girlfriend does on an overall scale. Every guy is different though some guys realize this and just dont give a ****
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Old 03-26-2013, 05:34 AM   #62
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Off topic:

I hate guys who break up with the girlfriend because they think they can hook up and find better girls, then when they realize they are just average idiots who couldnt get other girls, they go bak to their ex with their tail between their legs.

On Topic: I think cheating defines character. I have cheated before when my other girlfriend deserved it or was suspicious that she is not a saint herself ( which she wasn't).

But to cheat on my current girlfriend would make me the biggest asshole without a character because she is very cool, kind, loyal and loving to me.
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Old 03-26-2013, 06:46 AM   #63
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I hate guys who break up with the girlfriend because they think they can hook up and find better girls, then when they realize they are just average idiots who couldnt get other girls, they go bak to their ex with their tail between their legs.

On Topic: I think cheating defines character. I have cheated before when my other girlfriend deserved it or was suspicious that she is not a saint herself ( which she wasn't).

But to cheat on my current girlfriend would make me the biggest asshole without a character because she is very cool, kind, loyal and loving to me.

Is that the only thing keeping you from cheating on your current gf?
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Old 03-26-2013, 01:55 PM   #64
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Not in couples therapy

And it wouldn't be all that hard to screw one of my clients. I get women in individual therapy that are in terrible relationships and aren't used to feeling heard or understood by any men in their lives. That leads them to sometimes develop feelings for me. A couple of weeks ago I had a client explicitly describe to me what she would like to do to me. I showed the video to my supervisor and just watched her jaw drop to the floor.

The problem though is that I have ethics, morals (and a love for keeping my career), and a girlfriend.


How old are you?
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Old 03-26-2013, 02:08 PM   #65
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How old are you?

28

My supervisor joked that she is going to have to keep tabs on my videos to see if any end early, lol.
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Old 03-26-2013, 02:19 PM   #66
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My supervisor joked that she is going to have to keep tabs on my videos to see if any end early, lol.


Didn't you have a thread on here about whether or not you should break up with your former girlfriend?
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Old 03-26-2013, 02:23 PM   #67
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Didn't you have a thread on here about whether or not you should break up with your former girlfriend?

I had a venting thread about such a situation.
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Old 03-26-2013, 02:38 PM   #68
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I had a venting thread about such a situation.

Someone needs to bump it
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Old 03-26-2013, 02:39 PM   #69
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I've cheated my entire life, every single relationship.

I feel no guilt. I love females, it's a compulsion, if I'm not chasing a girl I'm not satisfied. Girlfriend gives me plenty of sex, but I need to be constantly on the hunt I cannot resist it.

Not getting caught is easy.
-don't let females go through your phone

-don't tell the same stories to the same females over and over, keep on top of your relationships so they believe they're the only girl

-don't get lazy, fck every girl so good they want to brag about you, if the sex is good they will go with the flow much easier, no questions

-my girlfriend is the only girl I bring around friends and family, I will typically brief my best friends or brothers to not bring up certain things I've done lately because they will accidentally tell stories involving other girls.. If you don't remind your homie, it's an easy mistake sometimes that will get you caught up

This sounds exactly like me. I tend to give other people advice on how to do the opposite of what I'm doing. I'm not trying to get to out of hand with fcking until I get my own crib, etc. But, you're right. When I'm 25-30 I would of regret doing the things I didn't do.
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Old 03-26-2013, 02:50 PM   #70
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Someone needs to bump it

Yeah, it was a f*cked up situation. Just because I educate on this shit doesn't mean my life runs super smooth, lol.
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Old 03-26-2013, 04:28 PM   #71
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Yeah, it was a f*cked up situation. Just because I educate on this shit doesn't mean my life runs super smooth, lol.

Well, even a therapist needs a therapist, that's the saying I go by. Sorry I haven't hit you up yet bro, I'm actually going to sit down and send you that PM when I'm ready to get into a deep convo, right now I'm just browsing the web (craigslist) and shit.
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Old 03-26-2013, 04:30 PM   #72
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Well, even a therapist needs a therapist, that's the saying I go by. Sorry I haven't hit you up yet bro, I'm actually going to sit down and send you that PM when I'm ready to get into a deep convo, right now I'm just browsing the web (craigslist) and shit.

Agreed. And no worries. It is for you anyway, so it is your call if you get around to it.
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Old 03-26-2013, 04:31 PM   #73
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Agreed. And no worries. It is for you anyway, so it is your call if you get around to it.

What team fan of the NBA are you?
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Old 03-26-2013, 04:33 PM   #74
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What team fan of the NBA are you?

That was odd phrasing, but I'm a Blazer fan.
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