Re: My GF broke up w/ me a couple years ago and has a new BF but still texts me
I guess it depends on your hopes for your future, OP. I wouldn't keep texting her in hopes of getting her back, but if you hope to maintain a friendship, then I don't see the problem (well, depending on the context of the texts). I kept in touch with an ex and by the time feelings were gone from both of us, we were able to maintain a friendship. We have been in contact for 10 years even through our own long term relationships (and a marriage for her) that have come and gone. But if you don't want a friendship and it is relationship or nothing, you definitely need your space.