So, this 25 year old hot girl broke up a 7 year relationship with this 27 year old guy. 1 month and a half later, she started seeing me. Things were going great (she said she loved our dates and so on - we kissed, but did not have sex) and then she suddenly changed and told me that she is not ready to start a new relationship (cause her heart is still not free and she is very confused), that she wants to stay friends for now cause she needs a time alone to get over (her ex), although she claims to still want to be in touch (of course I wont, since she said she needs a time alone - and i don't want to be friends of her at all, f*** the friendzone). So, my friends, what does it mean?:
a) She has feelings for her ex and still loves him, but it's trying to figure it out if she can forgive him (i know he did something bad), which she will eventually do.
b) Same, but she wants to keep you as a backup if she does not get back to her boyfriend
c) She's already seing her ex, but did not want to tell you.
d) She ready, but only not for you. It was all BS to say that she's just not into you.
Also, I'm got to meet her soon in a birthday party (she knows I'll be there for sure and vice-versa). What to do:
a) Ignore her completely
b) Talk to her a little bit, but like friends and leave her alone.
c) Talk to her and if she gives indications of interest, try something.
d) Talk to her and even if she gives indications of interest, don't do anything.
Thanks in advance.
PS: And no, I never said I was in love with her or that I wanted a serious relationship right away.
Last edited by lakers_forever : 05-19-2013 at 03:15 AM.
Only be flirtatious/dirty with her, if she doesn't respond well don't talk to her for a while, she'll come around.
Thanks. I don't think it's the moment to be flirtatious with her. She just said she needs some time alone. I think that would be needy. I think the best thing is to not talk to her for a while. I will see her in person in 2 weeks anyway. I think she will be with her ex there. I hope it's not a new guy - that would make me feel like shite.
dont get serious with her.
obviously she has not fallen deep for you, or else none of that would matter. so feel free to keep in touch with her, but dont get emotionally attached. Just play it like another broad.