Originally Posted by Dolphin
Word. I am kinda surprised you didn't have female friends before you were married that you would just go to movies or something with like they were one of your boys though. I get the sense from some of the responses that this is sort of a foreign idea. lol
Oh I have had alot of females that I have hung out and didnt hit... The only reason I didnt hit though is because the timing wasnt right..If she has a boyfriend? I'll be her friend, and get to know her, but Im just putting my bid in for the future.. in case they break up. I wont violate another man's chick, but if they break up? Im going in.. I was a shark like that.. One day she come to me like "me and tommy are through"
then I'm already half way to her body..
Im married though, and I treat my wife with the upmost respect.. I dont even go over a friend's house, or hang where there would be even a hint of anything inappropriate. If I commit to a woman, I mean it. I dont wanna disrespect my wife. I would feel bad about that..
But when you are single? you do what you want to.. F*ck who you want and have all the girlfriends you can handle.
I usually am into randoms or girls I quit after a few weeks (not good, I know and why I'm cooling it for a bit lol) so I have no interest in this girl in that way at all anymore, but I know some of you are still thinking "*** ain't tapping that? ***". Only reason I feel we have become legit friends is because we still worked with each other a while after the sex stopped so we kinda re-acclimated ourselves to each other if you will.
Like I said, if you arent trying to lay her? its up to her and her boyfriend to figure out that situation because you are being honest about your intentions and everything should be everything..
If he is mad? he needs to talk to her about it.. If she is playing a game? she needs to get her head right and be honest about what she really wants.. dont play..
Tell her "Im not fighting any dudes for you...I hope you know that, we are just friends"