I don't think you should feel bad, but speaking as someone who had a parent cheat on the other, it's really devastating to kids, and can change their opinion about what relationships are. Granted, my Dad's affair was constantly thrown in my face and we were threatened by his side-skank constantly, but still. If you don't have this attitude changed, you should be careful about it with having kids.
This statement is significantly different from your original statement of:
Originally Posted by TheReal Kendall
All or if not most women think all men cheat.
We go from "All" or "Most" to "A lot" of women, as well as "all" to "most." I do agree that a lot of women think that a lot of men cheat. Just for the record, statistics show that about as many women have cheated in relationships as men do.
To tack onto the part of the conversation Joe started, if you want to be with multiple partners, be honest with yourself and with the person(people) you are with. The definition of cheating has to do with breaking established rules. Different couples can create their own established rules. In an open relationship, it isn't cheating because you are not breaking the rules that you establish. However, be prepared for the woman that agrees you can do this to likely want something on the side as well.
Haven't looked up any stats but I would bet over 50% of both men and women who get married are unfaithful at some point of the marriage.
And yes someone said earlier that many men can't get women that easy so they are fine settling, and I think that is spot on. We can see that the men in Hollywood, who CAN get women usually don't last very long in a marriage.
I would hope you feel bad and regret it. People make mistakes, its all good. But if you continually do it with no remorse you are a sh1tty person.lol Why be with someone and play them like that if you care about them? -you don't really care.
It just means you don't take your significant other and your relationship seriously.
It is a big disparity looking at the recent sutdy I was talking about earlier in this thread, these studies are never 100% right but 40% of women said they have cheated compared to 12% for men.
I think the main reason is why women have higher % is becauses it is easy for them to find someone to have sex with as opposed to us men who haves sex with anyone over a 5 after two drinks. (speaking of men not in a relationship)
85% said they had giving it a thought and 14% to 4% for men admitted to having a long term affair.
If you have a quality female and you keep her happy, she will never cheat on you. Girls values are different and they don't have the same urges as guys.
If you have an immature female and mistreat her in ways such as not give her enough attention, act like an asshole, or don't satisfy her in bed- she may cheat.
Typically females don't cheat though unless they're bust downs. Females know they can get almost any guy at any time with the right flirting. If you gotta quality girl, not an immature bust down, then cheating is not something you have to worry about.
As far as dudes go, it's split. Some guys can white knight their whole life and its no skin off their back. They can resist the temptations and be happy with what they have. It's a good quality since cheating typically isn't great sex, it's just exciting new sex which we believe is so great.
Being a cheater is like having a curse. It's an urge/compulsion that will never be satisfied and you constantly are on the prowl to feed that addiction. It's a strange lifestyle that is very destructive.
Lol. A lot of females will cheat if they have acces to a male higher up the food chain.
Do you really want to be with a girl who will fck whoever has the most money in the room?
Do you really want to be with a girl who will fck a guy, even though all the other girls in the room could just as easily fck him?
Girls who cheat are bust downs. You don't want to be with either of the girls I just described.
It's not about what I want, it's about reality. You think your female would walk away if LeBron wanted to hit? Just as the desire the spread seed is coded in a man's dna, the desire to be with a more dominant ape is coded in a woman's dna.