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Old 02-19-2007, 06:06 PM   #1
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Default OT: What would you do if your girl were cheating on you...

...with another woman?


just hypothetical.



would you be mad? would you like it?



personally, I'd feel it would be awkward, and I would object to it. but it won't have the same sting if he cheated on me for a man.
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Old 02-19-2007, 06:25 PM   #2
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Default Re: OT: What would you do if your girl were cheating on you...

no one is going to like it. cause you said she was "cheating" on you. hence, going behind your back doing it hoping you won't find out.

it might be a different story for some people if she was honest about it upfront and told you beforehand.

I would be against it. but that's just me. i've known a couple people that introduced other people into their relationship, and it didn't end well.

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Old 02-19-2007, 06:31 PM   #3
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Default Re: OT: What would you do if your girl were cheating on you...

Like you said i'd still be against it, but i wouldn't be as hurt as i would be if it were another man
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Old 02-19-2007, 06:37 PM   #4
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Default Re: OT: What would you do if your girl were cheating on you...

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Like you said i'd still be against it, but i wouldn't be as hurt as i would be if it were another man



would you ask for a little threeway action?
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Old 02-19-2007, 07:21 PM   #5
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Default Re: OT: What would you do if your girl were cheating on you...

My friend's wife left him for another woman. A nasty, beastly woman.
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Old 02-23-2007, 03:03 PM   #6
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Default Re: OT: What would you do if your girl were cheating on you...

id ask for a threesome then dump her
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Old 02-23-2007, 03:08 PM   #7
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Default Re: OT: What would you do if your girl were cheating on you...

what's the other chick look like?
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Old 02-23-2007, 03:09 PM   #8
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We'd be done.
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Old 02-23-2007, 03:36 PM   #9
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Default Re: OT: What would you do if your girl were cheating on you...

Man or woman, it's still cheating, especially if you have an exclusive relationship. Someone mentioned the scenario of them being honest about it and introducing the person, like an open marriage a la Will & Jada (Monique has an open marriage too). That doesn't make sense to me, if you're still going to sleep with other people and not look to your spouse to be your sole source of sexual satisfaction, why get married? Why don't you just do the civil union thing? Part of the vows is to forsake all others for that one person, so the concept of an open marriage is an oxymoron.

Having said that, if such a scenario bothers, then you should make sure that the person you're with isn't prone to play the field. Definitely find that out before you start talking about getting married.
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Old 02-23-2007, 08:29 PM   #10
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Default Re: OT: What would you do if your girl were cheating on you...

I'd ask for a three some, if I get rejected, well, we'll go from there.
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Old 02-23-2007, 08:42 PM   #11
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Default Re: OT: What would you do if your girl were cheating on you...

depends on how much i care for that woman.

but in most cases > ask for a three some -> either accepted/rejected we're done after that.
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Old 02-23-2007, 08:55 PM   #12
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Old 02-23-2007, 09:03 PM   #13
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Default Re: OT: What would you do if your girl were cheating on you...

I would just walk away in shock and horror.... if I really liked her... I'd just want to know why she would do this.... it hurts when someone cheats on you man.. I did this once, but I was young and my friend who was a few years older than me kept telling me it was cool to do it and he had like 10 girlfriends....
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Old 02-23-2007, 09:06 PM   #14
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I would just walk away in shock and horror.... if I really liked her... I'd just want to know why she would do this.... it hurts when someone cheats on you man.. I did this once, but I was young and my friend who was a few years older than me kept telling me it was cool to do it and he had like 10 girlfriends....

Yeah man its a killer when a girl cheats on you especially if you really like her.
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Old 02-23-2007, 09:13 PM   #15
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Yeah man its a killer when a girl cheats on you especially if you really like her.

has it ever happend to you? : I remember this girlfriend I had, but I was like 13 at the time, she was like 12, and she played me with my best friend! Man, I didn't sleep, eat or do anything for like a week! I was depressed and when they say heart broken, it's literaly heart broken! I was feeling pain in my chest!
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