pot. though i've only been smoking about a year and half, and when it comes to being ambitious about work or trying new things, pot has helped tremendously. Prior to that i'd just stay depressed and alone and not try.
my hobbies include drinking, smoking, and all types of ill shit...or smoking pot, conversing with others on life, i really do enjoy a good conversation. its like art, listening to what they say, considering it, possibly replying. its fun. i have an xbox 360 but feel the older i get the less video games impress me. i watch shows, place pick-up basketball, write, listen to a lot of music. got a guitar, practice that.
Originally Posted by DonDadda59
Does it bother you?
Personally I've always been a loner and felt most comfortable alone even though I was 'popular' and had no issues making friends, being social, etc. Never liked moving in packs. Don't mind catching a movie by myself and doing other activities alone.
That fact never bothered me but it has cost me in terms of long term friendships.
Originally Posted by Scholar
What do you think the Brooklyn Nets will be like next season?
that's the thing, it not bothering me is what also cost the associates i make. its that i am often most comfortable alone, but i go through these times when i get very depressed because i don't have a single person in the real world to call (outside of some aunts).
Originally Posted by PullupJay
Do you even lift?
How often do you fap?
Do you drink alcohol?
How often do you smoke weed?
i do Yoga For Regular Guys. once a week, but i'm trying to go cold turkey. not regularly. i sometimes like to have wine and rum in the house just in case there is a guest. i smoke every day since its the main thing that keeps me from acting on my desire to choke people and tell life to **** off, take whatever is in the bank and just move some place foreign and diogenes of sinope the rest of life.
From one bum to another, my advice: consider that everything you've done so far in your life has led you to where you are now. Not happy with the results of following your intuition all these years? Do the opposite.
great show, great episode. i got really high and watched a lot of seinfeld. the show felt so different, like George, Jerry, and Elaine are all actually elitist pricks, but isn't flat out said, but has a lot to do with how the rest of the city treats them (hence all the drama of the show, because everyone hates them). they are all spoiled brats, and this i their life. its one of those beverly hills/laguna beach mtv teen shows if it was done right. Kramer is on public assistance, SSI or something, the poor friend jerry made that hooked him up with drugs or helped him hide a body one time. they keep Kramer around for shady shit they don't want to do.
so i guess i have a habit wanting friends when i want them, then not wanting to be bothered when i don't.
You sound like a perfect friend for me. I could call you to go do something when i felt like it, and when i didn't felt like it, i know you wouldn't bother me
Put an ad on a newspaper or something. "looking for casual friends".
Shit making friends is complicated, first because most people are idiots and are a waste of time, meaningful friendships are made when you are a kid\teenager, most are just validation, people need someone to validate their life, the perpetual "look at me, look at me" hence facebook being so popular.
Second because it would be creepy going around asking strangers if they want to be your friends, works fine if you want to bang them though.
get a job, do charity work... shit try to Google "how to make friends" pretty sure you will get tons of good ideas.
Be honest, seriously be honest, don't be afraid to sound and look like a loser, see it as a filter for douchebags.