1. Post a list of all the ingredients you used. (Brands included)
2. Did you let the batter set?
3. How thick was the batter (Thick batter is better)
4. How hot was the pan?
5. When did you flip the pancakes over?
I actually think all your pancake woes come from using a pan. They are uneven cooking surfaces and won't cook your pancakes like a long cooking griddle would. Go out and buy a pancake griddle and try making them again.
Like Ridonks I take my pancakes very seriously.