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Old 02-27-2018, 10:55 PM   #31
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For starters I would ask her to grab lunch at work and then you can feel it out from there.

I asked out my this girl I share a duplex with because I knew if I didnít do something id get stuck in the friend zone and we hooked up and went out twice. Didnít end up leading anywhere but we still cool and I donít regret it cause she knows Iím not a ***** atleast.

The longer you wait the more you will never have a shot to do anything with her. I just recently realized that If you donít ask a girl out by atleast the 3rd time you see her than your done for.
lunch at work seems a bit tricky bc she carpools with 2 coworkers that she lives with. like today one of them messaged her while we were on the computer, she got a skype from them that they needed her to give them a ride to their apartment to get something.
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Old 02-27-2018, 10:56 PM   #32
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I assure you.....almost as many women as men are OK with just having sex without a relationship. You just have to develop enough self-confidence that you can let her know your intentions. Women these days are absolutely OK with a guy they find interesting letting them know they arent looking for a relationship but wouldnít mind hanging out and ****ing from time to time. Two women I work with are always talking about lame men constantly showing interest but not wanting to take it too far for fear of a new long-term relationship. Both of these women would **** these guys if they would just come out and say thatís all they wanted but instead they are sending texts and beating around the bush waiting for the women to make the first move. Some women will but most just want you to be a man and say what you want.


what you're implying, is a lot of men are perfectly fine with living off of inheritance
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Old 02-27-2018, 10:58 PM   #33
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I'm not judging. I do the same every once in a while. I did this with gf's little 19 yo cousin. Her body is also not remotely what I prefer except for the dark hair and pale skin.

https://www.xvideos.com/video5889724..._mom_approved_

This actress just needs a nose ring and a tattoo on her neck. Other than that shes an exact match. I also need to track down this porn actress and ask her if she can get pregnant since her cousin just got knocked up and now has a little bump.
lmao. that was a good fvck, rubbed one out to this vid. this is my favorite position because as a fat man i can lift my gut and place it on the contour of her lower back,, it just works to my advantage spatially speaking
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Old 02-27-2018, 11:47 PM   #34
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lunch at work seems a bit tricky bc she carpools with 2 coworkers that she lives with. like today one of them messaged her while we were on the computer, she got a skype from them that they needed her to give them a ride to their apartment to get something.
Whoa. Are these coworkers she lives with men? If so she is getting pig roasted on the regular.
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Old 02-28-2018, 12:31 AM   #35
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Get gastric bypass surgery

Lose 100 pounds

Then ask her out


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Old 02-28-2018, 01:08 AM   #36
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Get gastric bypass surgery

Lose 100 pounds

Then ask her out


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well played, teaching one who wants to be cucked how to start cucking
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Old 02-28-2018, 07:40 AM   #37
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damn bro, coaching me and hyping me out here

i appreciate the veteran advice.

i just met her last week so i'm still within that timeframe. i'm going to tell her i am attracted to her and would like to get to know her better, so maybe hang out with her during the day then? does it matter?


Just make sure she knows you want her....but dont let her feel fawned over.

Get in and out. Dont linger after you ask her out trying to make conversation. Let her have her space. If shes already talking to you all day she has less motivation to want to spend time elsewhere.

If you arent yet comfortable telling hot women what you want and what you think....practice on average to slightly below average women. Once you see that hot girls are just as insecure as non hot ones your job is a lot easier.

The same approach that works on a 5 works on an 8.

Establish that you arent intimidated or putting too much thought into it. That they have to win your attention as much as the other way around.

While back I told a new girl at work a couple guys were into that she looked good and I asked her what else she had to offer. I said something along the lines of "Youre obviously cute. But im not ugly. And im charming. Whats your fall back?" just trying to see how she reacted. We talked like 2 minutes. Turns out shes clever too. Which I told her and I left her alone.

Im at her house eating cous cous with her walking around half naked a week later.

We never even did anything. I wasnt really....like...looking. And I was in the middle of ending a six month or so thing I had going on. I just enjoy knowing I can. Gotta cultivate your ego like that at times.

Dont show your insecurities....and they likely show you theirs. And all women are insecure. Even the ones who have no reason to be.

This world is full of cute women who obsess over flaws only they see and think guys arent interested even though they get hit on all day. It doesnt make a speck of sense but its true.

The average 8 has no more self confidence than the average 5.
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Old 02-28-2018, 08:10 AM   #38
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lunch at work seems a bit tricky bc she carpools with 2 coworkers that she lives with. like today one of them messaged her while we were on the computer, she got a skype from them that they needed her to give them a ride to their apartment to get something.

WTF??

Even better.

She doesn't have her own ride to lunch. Offer her one.

****ing amateur hour.
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Old 02-28-2018, 11:44 AM   #39
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Just make sure she knows you want her....but dont let her feel fawned over.


This is pretty important... all the movies and songs and books preach how you should show the girl how much you like her and do all these nice things to her.

Recently learned that once you start doing that then the girl knows she has the upper hand. you can never let a girl think she has the upper hand. let her know you interested, but don't overdue it. I've learned this the hard and have recently changed my way and it works.
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Old 02-28-2018, 01:33 PM   #40
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You put way too much thought into p.ussy

The sooner you stop stressing about it, the sooner it comes to you.
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Old 02-28-2018, 01:34 PM   #41
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Whoa. Are these coworkers she lives with men? If so she is getting pig roasted on the regular.
yes, she lives with 2 guys. i dont see how this is a problem. sheís not ďhotĒ per say, cute at best. i know guys who live with a female and never tried fvcking bc theres a line they dont wonna cross
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Old 02-28-2018, 01:39 PM   #42
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you waste no time, brotha
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Old 02-28-2018, 01:40 PM   #43
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Just make sure she knows you want her....but dont let her feel fawned over.

Get in and out. Dont linger after you ask her out trying to make conversation. Let her have her space. If shes already talking to you all day she has less motivation to want to spend time elsewhere.

If you arent yet comfortable telling hot women what you want and what you think....practice on average to slightly below average women. Once you see that hot girls are just as insecure as non hot ones your job is a lot easier.

The same approach that works on a 5 works on an 8.

Establish that you arent intimidated or putting too much thought into it. That they have to win your attention as much as the other way around.

While back I told a new girl at work a couple guys were into that she looked good and I asked her what else she had to offer. I said something along the lines of "Youre obviously cute. But im not ugly. And im charming. Whats your fall back?" just trying to see how she reacted. We talked like 2 minutes. Turns out shes clever too. Which I told her and I left her alone.

Im at her house eating cous cous with her walking around half naked a week later.

We never even did anything. I wasnt really....like...looking. And I was in the middle of ending a six month or so thing I had going on. I just enjoy knowing I can. Gotta cultivate your ego like that at times.

Dont show your insecurities....and they likely show you theirs. And all women are insecure. Even the ones who have no reason to be.

This world is full of cute women who obsess over flaws only they see and think guys arent interested even though they get hit on all day. It doesnt make a speck of sense but its true.

The average 8 has no more self confidence than the average 5.

i get what youíre saying, but for the same reason, iíll probably never be great with women. just average bc my dumbass doesnít know how to charm or whatever. iím pretty upfront about what and who i am. i usually pop jokes here and there, but as far as insecurities go, i know where i stand so i just admit to women iím not good at certain stuff.
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Old 02-28-2018, 02:09 PM   #44
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The way I see it I’m not great with women. I’m great with people and in truth it wasnt that way until I made a conscious effort to stop changing the way I behaved around women. I’ll talk to a beautiful woman I never met the same way I will talk to a guy. Just gotta learn to be yourself and take the filter off because you really give off a vibe of insecurity when you seem to be searching for the right thing to say and really concerned about what they think of you.

Fake it till you make it works. Just pretending you don’t care will help. I’m not saying you even have a problem. I’m sure you get by. I’m just saying if you are in a place where you feel a need to try to figure out how to approach a girl you might benefit from some confidence. And the only way to get it is pretend you already have it and see how much it changes your life.

People will try to change everything about them except their attitude. Start working out and change their hair and look for colognes that women like and still be timid as if that isn’t the entire problem.

All the crunches in the world won’t make up for being indecisive.

I guarantee you that within 1 mile of where you’re sitting there’s a guy in a gym working his ass off while the girl he’s trying to impress is waking up in an unclean house owned by the mom of an out of shape dude that she’s ****ing who doesn’t even care about her.

And what the guy trying to better himself for her doesn’t realize is the other guys greatest asset is how little he cares about her because she doesn’t care about him either and she could go to his moms house and have fun without the concern of anybody catching feelings.

Dudes are in the friend zone of women who are actually attracted to them and may even love them. But they arent ready for relationships and feel that if they sleep with the guy with all the mutual feelings it suggests they are interested in a relationship. So they will go sleep with a guy they are less physically attracted to and have no emotional connection to just to be certain its nothing but harmless fun that won’t ruin their summer.

The biggest mistake guys make is trying to be prince charming to women who just want some uncomplicated fun.

And to be clear I’m not just talking about your situation. Just spreading some truth for anyone who might need to hear it.
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Old 02-28-2018, 02:14 PM   #45
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You just got a new job and want to stick your d*ck into the first girl that talks to you? Most of the time, it's not wise to sleep with people that you work with. There's plenty of girls outside of work you can hook up with. Stick with that and ensure you don't fvck up this job.
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