Originally Posted by highwhey
damn bro, coaching me and hyping me out here
i appreciate the veteran advice.
i just met her last week so i'm still within that timeframe. i'm going to tell her i am attracted to her and would like to get to know her better, so maybe hang out with her during the day then? does it matter?
Just make sure she knows you want her....but dont let her feel fawned over.
Get in and out. Dont linger after you ask her out trying to make conversation. Let her have her space. If shes already talking to you all day she has less motivation to want to spend time elsewhere.
If you arent yet comfortable telling hot women what you want and what you think....practice on average to slightly below average women. Once you see that hot girls are just as insecure as non hot ones your job is a lot easier.
The same approach that works on a 5 works on an 8.
Establish that you arent intimidated or putting too much thought into it. That they have to win your attention as much as the other way around.
While back I told a new girl at work a couple guys were into that she looked good and I asked her what else she had to offer. I said something along the lines of "Youre obviously cute. But im not ugly. And im charming. Whats your fall back?" just trying to see how she reacted. We talked like 2 minutes. Turns out shes clever too. Which I told her and I left her alone.
Im at her house eating cous cous with her walking around half naked a week later.
We never even did anything. I wasnt really....like...looking. And I was in the middle of ending a six month or so thing I had going on. I just enjoy knowing I can. Gotta cultivate your ego like that at times.
Dont show your insecurities....and they likely show you theirs. And all women are insecure. Even the ones who have no reason to be.
This world is full of cute women who obsess over flaws only they see and think guys arent interested even though they get hit on all day. It doesnt make a speck of sense but its true.
The average 8 has no more self confidence than the average 5.