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Old 07-21-2014, 08:39 PM   #1
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Default Re: The story of how i finagled a date with a girl and my future wife.

If you confess feelings, you've given up the power. I learned that the hard way years ago. Typically not a wise idea to do that unless you know for a fact she's going to respond how you want her to.

All girls are different but very, very few want a guy that comes off as desperate, even if he isn't actually desperate. Perception is everything until they know you. Confessing your feelings to a girl you don't really know... is exactly that. Be careful.
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This some Beta shit.
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Uh.. I cant find nothing right with your logic. How do you get nervous on facebook to begin with?
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Default Re: The story of how i finagled a date with a girl and my future wife.

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If you confess feelings, you've given up the power. I learned that the hard way years ago. Typically not a wise idea to do that unless you know for a fact she's going to respond how you want her to.

All girls are different but very, very few want a guy that comes off as desperate, even if he isn't actually desperate. Perception is everything until they know you. Confessing your feelings to a girl you don't really know... is exactly that. Be careful.


very true. i think its a psychological human thing. one person in a relationship(pre-relationship) is sweating the other real hard, the other is going to think they're desperate, they got it like that, and they can afford to play him a lot more. not everyone but a lot of people are like this, and looks/job/money matter too so its all a factor in relation to each other where it gets complicated.

its best to simplify it into don't ever sweat someone super hard, or say you love them early, play it lax and cool, even if u feel whipped and think she's the one, you gotta hold that in.
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Nate jizz is a lame.
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dammit why didnt anyone quote his original post before deletion? Can anyone summarize who got to read the OP?
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dammit why didnt anyone quote his original post before deletion? Can anyone summarize who got to read the OP?
Lets see if I remember:


He met a girl in okcupid.
He befriend her in facebook
He got nervous over facebook because she was cute. She unfriended him
He met her later and is trying some Beta crap to woo her again
Then he said meet my future wife.
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Lets see if I remember:


He met a girl in okcupid.
He befriend her in facebook
He got nervous over facebook because she was cute. She unfriended him
He met her later and is trying some Beta crap to woo her again
Then he said meet my future wife.


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OP, why delete?
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Default Re: The story of how i finagled a date with a girl and my future wife.

My wife went from semi interested to super interested because after she visited me (and we had a great time in NY) I didn't call her for a few days because honestly, I was just busy. Work picked up. She basically wondered what she did wrong and what she needed to do instead. I definitely reccommend playing it a bit hard to get at times.
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My wife went from semi interested to super interested because after she visited me (and we had a great time in NY) I didn't call her for a few days because honestly, I was just busy. Work picked up. She basically wondered what she did wrong and what she needed to do instead. I definitely reccommend playing it a bit hard to get at times.
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