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Old 07-14-2007, 08:56 PM   #31
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They are also the ones that you end up parking next to at a club 5 years later in a Ferarri.


Haha, so true
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Old 07-14-2007, 09:02 PM   #32
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geewiz is a young'n, I think.

Grad students study at the library on Saturday night, so he's partially right.......

Yeah its true for grad students, but its no indication of whether or not someone is looking for serious relationships. In fact the exact opposite is kinda likely. Usually when a woman is 100% focused on her school or career she doesn't want to be distracted by having a man in her life/starting a family
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Old 07-14-2007, 09:28 PM   #33
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my last three girlfriends were all older, so i don't believe in that stereotype. maybe if a girl was 18, she'd want an older guy like 25yo, but if the women is over 30, she'd prefer the physicality of a younger guy than some balding 50 yo. but if she wants older, most likely, it's because of security and money reasons because an older guy is more likely to have the resources to pamper her up. but for physical stuff, there's no way an old guy has anything over a younger guy. women are superficial too and they care about looks like anyone else. you think demi moore would be with ashton kutcher if he looked like screach?
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Old 07-14-2007, 09:34 PM   #34
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my last three girlfriends were all older, so i don't believe in that stereotype. maybe if a girl was 18, she'd want an older guy like 25yo, but if the women is over 30, she'd prefer the physicality of a younger guy than some balding 50 yo. but if she wants older, most likely, it's because of security and money reasons because an older guy is more likely to have the resources to pamper her up. but for physical stuff, there's no way an old guy has anything over a younger guy. women are superficial too and they care about looks like anyone else. you think demi moore would be with ashton kutcher if he looked like screach?
HBO series, Hookers at the Point.

the hookers all agreed that they enjoy sex with older men over the younger ones...they said that young men are too fast and aggresive and that older men have a better understanding of what pleases a woman.

Don't let porn movies fool you, 95% of women prefer "soft core" lovin over getting drilled silly and jizzed on.

and yeah, I know I am talking about a bunch of washed up hookers but they are professionals at having sex...
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Yeah its true for grad students, but its no indication of whether or not someone is looking for serious relationships. In fact the exact opposite is kinda likely. Usually when a woman is 100% focused on her school or career she doesn't want to be distracted by having a man in her life/starting a family


I once attempted to date a girl who was in med school. Place the emphasis on ATTEMPTED. She could NEVER do anything. Always too busy, even to go out and get a bite of food to eat. I understand that people need to be really focused on their schooling or career, but to completely shut out others isn't a good thing. We all need relationships in our life, whether it's just close friends, good family, or dating........
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Old 07-14-2007, 09:41 PM   #36
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are you saying I am a liar?

I have been engaged to a girl I was with for 5 years and I am currently seeing a girl that I have been with for 2 years now. Before that I had numerous girlfreinds in high school.

you are correct that some girls will not let you get away with treating them bad but those are the type that are impossible to please anyway. If the girl really wants you as a man then you can get away with treating her like crap for quite a long time. It will last longer than giving in to thier every need. Brad Pitt could walk into New York and have those same girls you speak of licking the bottom of his shoes. It really depends on the kind of man you are and how bad they want to be with you. If your a broke loser with no job and weigh 400 lbs. then obviously you aren't gonna be able to play the pimp role very long...


not calling you a liar. just trying to get you to make a more sensible response. and you did. good job.
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Old 07-15-2007, 12:57 AM   #37
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not really, no although if you're rich, it's definitely nice

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Older guys have experience in dealing with women...they give women exactly what they want..younger guys tend to jump the gun with women ..sweat them ,act jealous, be immature ..(for the most part)older guys give them what they want emotionally ..
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Older guys have experience in dealing with women...they give women exactly what they want..younger guys tend to jump the gun with women ..sweat them ,act jealous, be immature ..(for the most part)older guys give them what they want emotionally ..



the only thing is I am sure there are a lot of younger guys who do embody the more mature persona... but a lot of more beautiful women don't bother trying to search for them and play the percentages by focusing primarily on the older ones.
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the only thing is I am sure there are a lot of younger guys who do embody the more mature persona... but a lot of more beautiful women don't bother trying to search for them and play the percentages by focusing primarily on the older ones.
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Old 07-15-2007, 04:42 PM   #41
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I think women like older men because they represent more of a "father" figure. They feel more secure with them, more experience, and they're usually more stable.
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Older guys are often wealthier and more mature, giving young ladies a feeling of safety.
Good example: Tom and Katie




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I think women like older men because they represent more of a "father" figure. They feel more secure with them, more experience, and they're usually more stable.



any verifiable basis for this Freud?


because this seems totally irrelevant. if anything, women these days want the exact opposite of a man that resembles their father.
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upper middle class women are more likely to be money-chasers because they want to maintain the same lifestyle. Women raised in a more middle class/rural setting are more concerned about finding someone that makes them happy.
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upper middle class women are more likely to be money-chasers because they want to maintain the same lifestyle. Women raised in a more middle class/rural setting are more concerned about finding someone that makes them happy.


pretty big umbrella you have there. maybe in many women we encounter this holds true. but i'd hold off making this a final conclusion.


anyway...

there's a double standard among middle class women:

at once they want a rich man for the money

yet simultaneously once they meet a rich man they believe their money has corrupted them from birth.

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