Re: Are you a virgin?
I'm pretty sure if anyone played the game and tossed aside their standards and integrity they could get laid whenever they want.
I'm like Shogon in that I'm extremely picky but have no business being picky. I have no time for slutty people, I find most girls boring, and I'm also sorta vain. but there have been a couple girls I've really liked and was quite simply too much of a wuss to make a move... so I can't completely claim the high road. there's no way I can justify a couple of the girls I've let slip..
for awhile I was in that stage of thinking, get laid at any cost but I had no means. then I had a long talk with a friend of mine who is in a serious long distance (not that long, like an hour away) relationship. and basically... the sappy **** that came out of his mouth completely stopped me in my tracks. after that conversation I just can't imagine losing my it to some slut. pretty much resolved from then on to be discriminate. because when you do find a real girl... it feels good. I'll never forget the way he just sorta lit up when I asked him how he felt when he was with her. it was beautiful. kinda thing you see in movies and roll your eyes at but when you actually meet someone in a relationship like that... its different.
I might never have what he has but it's gotta have some meaning. I've never been good with surface-deep relationships anyway, it wouldn't feel right.