Approaching A girl you've never talked to Before

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

I'll be the first to admit that I'm a very shy person. So shy that I curse it within my existence on a daily basis. Multiple times a day or in a week I get several opportunities to Interact with a girl. They're most times usually the one to initiate the conversation with me. Even If I find the girl attractive I just can't stay in the conversation and I inadvertent cut it short.

One of my best friend is a girl. Even though I find her attractive I don't get nervous nor do i get overcome with the usual shyness. It's probably because she has no filter and fits in with all my friends seamlessly.

So Theres This Girl I see in Campus. Usually in the school Grill. I find her attractive. I've backed down from talking to her because shes usually by her friends. But I made the resolve to talk to her the next time I see her regardless of whos she is with. So, today rolls around. After my first class I go to the library. When walking to my next class I see her walking to her class all alone. No phone in hand. No Friends. Just 2 feet away from me. I could have literally started a convo with her but I choked. I made eye contact a little before my long strides inevitably gaped her and she was out of sight.

How do I fkn approach her out of the blue without looking foolish and how do I keep myself calm about talking to her even though I don't know her. The female friend gave me some lines to use but I choked and couldn't even introduce myself.

Help Me Alphas and Ladies Men of ISH. This Young Student in the need of your aid.

:cheers: :banana: :banana: :banana:

[navy]

Are you attractive?

[warriorfan]

you will almost always be nervous approaching a girl you dont know but you just have to do it anyways

if you have a class with her it makes it easier, you both have something in common to talk about. when class is over talk to her and start it off asking about how she likes the class or the professor or whatever

then if you are having a good conversation ask her if she is doing anything and if she would like to have a cup of coffee or something and then just take her to a coffee place on campus or near

from there you should be well on your way

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

Are you attractive?

I don't know. People who've seen my picture or in real life think im decent looking.

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

you will almost always be nervous approaching a girl you dont know but you just have to do it anyways

if you have a class with her it makes it easier, you both have something in common to talk about. when class is over talk to her and start it off asking about how she likes the class or the professor or whatever

then if you are having a good conversation ask her if she is doing anything and if she would like to have a cup of coffee or something and then just take her to a coffee place on campus or near

from there you should be well on your way

sadly no classes with her.

[BasedTom]

when in doubt whip it out

[oh the horror]

Consider this: she's just as nervous and shy and potentially filled with some of the same doubts you are.

Just say you've seen her around and wanted to say hello. Keep it short, good news is that being that you're both on campus you have that in common to speak about.


It doesn't really have to be overly complicated. No real need to immediately ask for the digits but make yourself known to her. That way you can continuous say hello when you do see her

[navy]

I don't know. People who've seen my picture or in real life think im decent looking.
What do your clothes look like?

How attractive is she?

Yes, this stuff matter.

[1987_Lakers]

I know what you mean, I hook up with alot of girls when I'm at a bar/clubs because we are all drinking and having a good time and because I'm a good looking guy I have little problem getting laid in that situation. I've also hooked up with some chicks I met online.

But there is this girl who works at the gym I go to and she is absolutely stunning, 10/10. I see her sometimes checking me out and at times walks by me on purpose, but I just can't approach her and start a convo.:hammerhead:

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

What do your clothes look like?

How attractive is she?

Yes, this stuff matter.

Beauty is in the eyes of the Beholder I suppose so i don't know how others would judge her.

I tend to dress formally most times. I barley dress Casual unless it's after classes at night. So far she tends to dress in Sweatpants, Yogapants Sweatshirts and stuff.

[Draz]

Honestly. There's this girl in my class, it's my second semester being single. How I'd approach her, is, when we're both on break and I notice she's by herself, I'd confront her. I'll get straight to the point because I'm pretty straight forward, granted that you're approaching her it's a given that you're interested in her, might as well skip a few stages and get on with it.

I'd say, excuse me, what's your name again?
- answers
I just wanted to let you know you're gorgeous (flatter her) and maybe if its possible we can get to know each other as friends (mentioning friends to show I'm not pushy nor trying to risk being turned down if she had a boyfriend)
- if her answer is she has a bf, I'd say that's completely fine, I respect that (shows I'm not pushy or grimy) perhaps we can help each other study for quiz's or exam's, assignments (I'm sure she wouldn't mention she has a bf because I'm only asking to get to know her as a friend, unless she's a VERY faithful girl who blocks outsiders and overprotective over her relationship)
if her answer is sure (given that I'm still unsure if she has a bf or not) I'd exchange numbers right there and then, to sooner or later find out through taking it to the phone, that one call, be buddy-buddy with her, show I'm more interested in getting to know her as a person and not seem objective based for wanting a relationship (because AFTER ALL, you ARE as equal to her if not BETTER, and you want whats best for yourself, don't make this all about her)

That's just one thing I'd do. There's several other ways to approach a girl. Several other ways to play it cool, be smooth, etc.

[navy]

Beauty is in the eyes of the Beholder I suppose so i don't know how others would judge her.

I tend to dress formally most times. I barley dress Casual unless it's after classes at night. So far she tends to dress in Sweatpants, Yogapants Sweatshirts and stuff.
Ask your friends.

Man if your both just regular people go up and ask for her phone number. Let me tell you a secret. In this new social media age, girls do not say no to phone number request. Ive gotten crazy amount of numbers. Just do it. If it fails, you know you tried.

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

Honestly. There's this girl in my class, it's my second semester being single. How I'd approach her, is, when we're both on break and I notice she's by herself, I'd confront her. I'll get straight to the point because I'm pretty straight forward, granted that you're approaching her it's a given that you're interested in her, might as well skip a few stages and get on with it.

I'd say, excuse me, what's your name again?
- answers
I just wanted to let you know you're gorgeous (flatter her) and maybe if its possible we can get to know each other as friends (mentioning friends to show I'm not pushy nor trying to risk being turned down if she had a boyfriend)
- if her answer is she has a bf, I'd say that's completely fine, I respect that (shows I'm not pushy or grimy) perhaps we can help each other study for quiz's or exam's, assignments (I'm sure she wouldn't mention she has a bf because I'm only asking to get to know her as a friend, unless she's a VERY faithful girl who blocks outsiders and overprotective over her relationship)
if her answer is sure (given that I'm still unsure if she has a bf or not) I'd exchange numbers right there and then, to sooner or later find out through taking it to the phone, that one call, be buddy-buddy with her, show I'm more interested in getting to know her as a person and not seem objective based for wanting a relationship (because AFTER ALL, you ARE as equal to her if not BETTER, and you want whats best for yourself, don't make this all about her)

That's just one thing I'd do. There's several other ways to approach a girl. Several other ways to play it cool, be smooth, etc.


:bowdown: If only I could be as smooth as a criminal as this. The Problem is how I can work up the guts to do it.

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

Ask your friends.

Man if your both just regular people go up and ask for her phone number. Let me tell you a secret. In this new social media age, girls do not say no to phone number request. Ive gotten crazy amount of numbers. Just do it. If it fails, you know you tried.


I wouldn't call her regular. She's probably on the more known side. While I'm on the geeky side of things in terms of interests and stuff.

I do know from a friend of hers that she has a thing for chocolate.

[Draz]

The entire point is being smooth. If you aren't smooth, you'll stutter, finding yourself speechless, forgetting what to say (which tbh isn't bad at all, because girls prefer natural, raw, unplanned approaches from men)

Body language is everything as well. Don't stand there stick as a board. Smile, look at her in the eyes, gesture if you have too.

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

The entire point is being smooth. If you aren't smooth, you'll stutter, finding yourself speechless, forgetting what to say (which tbh isn't bad at all, because girls prefer natural, raw, unplanned approaches from men)

Body language is everything as well. Don't stand there stick as a board. Smile, look at her in the eyes, gesture if you have too.

Should I ask her to dinner coffee? Or just take down her number if i get up tot he point of doing this.

[Combat Wombat]

I'll be the first to admit that I'm a very shy person. So shy that I curse it within my existence on a daily basis. Multiple times a day or in a week I get several opportunities to Interact with a girl. They're most times usually the one to initiate the conversation with me. Even If I find the girl attractive I just can't stay in the conversation and I inadvertent cut it short.

One of my best friend is a girl. Even though I find her attractive I don't get nervous nor do i get overcome with the usual shyness. It's probably because she has no filter and fits in with all my friends seamlessly.

So Theres This Girl I see in Campus. Usually in the school Grill. I find her attractive. I've backed down from talking to her because shes usually by her friends. But I made the resolve to talk to her the next time I see her regardless of whos she is with. So, today rolls around. After my first class I go to the library. When walking to my next class I see her walking to her class all alone. No phone in hand. No Friends. Just 2 feet away from me. I could have literally started a convo with her but I choked. I made eye contact a little before my long strides inevitably gaped her and she was out of sight.

How do I fkn approach her out of the blue without looking foolish and how do I keep myself calm about talking to her even though I don't know her. The female friend gave me some lines to use but I choked and couldn't even introduce myself.

Help Me Alphas and Ladies Men of ISH. This Young Student in the need of your aid.

:cheers: :banana: :banana: :banana:

I suggest that you subscribe to one of my favourite sayings:

He who hesitates later *********es

:pimp:

[oh the horror]

Should I ask her to dinner coffee? Or just take down her number if i get up tot he point of doing this.



Coffee. You're still getting to know her.

[Draz]

Should I ask her to dinner coffee? Or just take down her number if i get up tot he point of doing this.
Never say breakfast, lunch, or dinner.

You need to feel her out first before understanding how far to take it. Breakfast and dinner being the very most you go out of your way when she's earned it after you've actually formed a bond that's getting to the stage where you're both almost together, the unofficial stage.

Believe me, unofficial is amazing. No commitment, no worries, if you're doing a great job, you're that guy making her smile in public, she's got all your attention, you've got all of hers, etc.

Once you formed a "friendship" you initiate LUNCH or coffee. Once again, breakfast is as serious as dinner. I also like to think breakfast being more important, because the female has to wake up early, she has to get dressed appropriately (and understand a way a female dresses when you're taking her out, or when shes planned on seeing you/interacting with you WILL tell you if she likes you subliminally), she has to make time for you.

Dinner is more casual, the "I have nothing else to do after school/work" type of thing. Stay away from dinner until she's your girl or you've kissed/had sex.

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

Coffee. You're still getting to know her.

Makes Sense.

[BigNBAfan]

If you are socially awkward short simple date first like others have suggested, coffee. If you can maintain a conversation with her find a longer date... pick her up from work and take her to lunch etc etc

[Draz]

Also, if the girl isn't a talker and SHE'S socially not capable of upholding conversations, you BETTER feel her out before you take her out and that happens. You're prone to be into a position where you'd have to either bring that out or find yourself being unable to socialize with her.

That's your first warning. If this happens, your natural instincts should kick in and you should feel yourself out. Gain experience under your belt understanding how to bring it out of someone by BRINGING IT OUT OF YOU first.

[Smook A.]

Confidence is key. Like Draz said, body language really matters.

#1: Eye Contact
- Very ****ing important. A HUGE emphasis on that. Now don't give her TOO MUCH eye contact. Look away for a few seconds at times, but don't do it often. If you're not giving her eye contact, you're gonna come off as awkward, and it'll be harder to talk to the girl. You wanna make sure your eyes are locked with hers. Btw, it's been proven that if you look into a girl's eyes, it'll increase the chance of them falling for you.

#2: Don't mumble your words
- You wanna sound confident, and your words should come out smooth. Relax, and take deep breaths if you want to. No girl wants to talk to a guy who stutters or sounds shy. It'll make them feel weird and they'll eventually get bored.

#3: Don't overthink
- Overthinking about what you're going to say will make you forget what to say next. Too many thoughts will be jumbled in your head. You'll be thinking and looking like a fool. It'll result in the conversation to break off. Let everything flow and listen to the girl. Girls absolutely love it when you pay attention to what they're saying. Also, try not to sound corny or someone you're not. Remember: Let the convo flow and don't force anything!

#4: Smile
- You don't wanna look dull. Smiling will light anyone's mood. The more you smile, the more the person you're talking to will smile. It's a fact. Oh and make sure your teeth are nice and clean. You don't wanna have jacked up teeth.

#5: Have a good sense of humor
Who doesn't like someone who's funny? When you make someone laugh, they'll like you more and they'll see you as someone who's exciting to be around. And don't be a bad type of funny. Don't ever make stupid jokes like 'yo mama'. And don't force the jokes. Once you find a good situation to say something humorous, say it. Once again, let it all flow.

Next time you see this girl, go up to her and say something simple. It could be anything like a simple hi, or "Hey, I've seen you around school and I had to come up and say hi. My name is _____, what's yours?". Look her in the eyes and smile. That'll make them feel comfortable. Don't overdo it, cause then you'll come off as a creep. Once she says hey back, ask her a question about herself. Girls love to talk about themselves, trust me. From then on the conversation will flow.

Also, if you feel shy, just put yourself in her shoes. You know damn well nobody wants to be approached by someone who can barely get their words out.

Good luck.

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

Never say breakfast, lunch, or dinner.

You need to feel her out first before understanding how far to take it. Breakfast and dinner being the very most you go out of your way when she's earned it after you've actually formed a bond that's getting to the stage where you're both almost together, the unofficial stage.

Believe me, unofficial is amazing. No commitment, no worries, if you're doing a great job, you're that guy making her smile in public, she's got all your attention, you've got all of hers, etc.

Once you formed a "friendship" you initiate LUNCH or coffee. Once again, breakfast is as serious as dinner. I also like to think breakfast being more important, because the female has to wake up early, she has to get dressed appropriately (and understand a way a female dresses when you're taking her out, or when shes planned on seeing you/interacting with you WILL tell you if she likes you subliminally), she has to make time for you.

Dinner is more casual, the "I have nothing else to do after school/work" type of thing. Stay away from dinner until she's your girl or you've kissed/had sex.


Should I like invite her toa date or should I like chat her up on the phone or online to get a feel of what she likes and stuff and be comfortable on what to say.

I have no filter when I'm around people I'm comfortable with so I don't really understand how far to take my Dark humor around girls.

[Smook A.]

Should I like invite her toa date or should I like chat her up on the phone or online to get a feel of what she likes and stuff and be comfortable on what to say.

I have no filter when I'm around people I'm comfortable with so I don't really understand how far to take my Dark humor around girls.
Definitely get to know her a little bit first before you ask her out. You wanna know what she likes/dislikes, what her main interests are, her hobbies, etc.

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

Confidence is key. Like Draz said, body language really matters.

#1: Eye Contact
- Very ****ing important. A HUGE emphasis on that. Now don't give her TOO MUCH eye contact. Look away for a few seconds at times, but don't do it often. If you're not giving her eye contact, you're gonna come off as awkward, and it'll be harder to talk to the girl. You wanna make sure your eyes are locked with hers. Btw, it's been proven that if you look into a girl's eyes, it'll increase the chance of them falling for you.

#2: Don't mumble your words
- You wanna sound confident, and your words should come out smooth. Relax, and take deep breaths if you want to. No girl wants to talk to a guy who stutters or sounds shy. It'll make them feel weird and they'll eventually get bored.

#3: Don't overthink
- Overthinking about what you're going to say will make you forget what to say next. Too many thoughts will be jumbled in your head. You'll be thinking and looking like a fool. It'll result in the conversation to break off. Let everything flow and listen to the girl. Girls absolutely love it when you pay attention to what they're saying. Also, try not to sound corny or someone you're not. Remember: Let the convo flow and don't force anything!

#4: Smile
- You don't wanna look dull. Smiling will light anyone's mood. The more you smile, the more the person you're talking to will smile. It's a fact. Oh and make sure your teeth are nice and clean. You don't wanna have jacked up teeth.

#5: Have a good sense of humor
Who doesn't like someone who's funny? When you make someone laugh, they'll like you more and they'll see you as someone who's exciting to be around. And don't be a bad type of funny. Don't ever make stupid jokes like 'yo mama'. And don't force the jokes. Once you find a good situation to say something humorous, say it. Once again, let it all flow.

Next time you see this girl, go up to her and say something simple. It could be anything like a simple hi, or "Hey, I've seen you around school and I had to come up and say hi. My name is _____, what's yours?". Look her in the eyes and smile. That'll make them feel comfortable. Don't overdo it, cause then you'll come off as a creep. Once she says hey back, ask her a question about herself. Girls love to talk about themselves, trust me. From then on the conversation will flow.

Also, if you feel shy, just put yourself in her shoes. You know damn well nobody wants to be approached by someone who can barely get their words out.

Good luck.


I'll make sure to smile. I'm always smiling around people I know but if I don't know someone I show like literally no emotion and I always have a Blank bored look on my face. I don't do it consciously. It's just I have like 2-3 emotional states. I'm either happy and smiling or im not.

[Draz]

Should I like invite her toa date or should I like chat her up on the phone or online to get a feel of what she likes and stuff and be comfortable on what to say.

I have no filter when I'm around people I'm comfortable with so I don't really understand how far to take my Dark humor around girls.
No dark humor around girls, first and foremost. That's something you bring out when she's your girl as a way to adapt to your personality.

I'll tell you what I'D do if I had her number. If you're texting her, and she starts acting "dry" with her responses, chances are you'll get distracted, turned off, or find yourself drifting in the opposition.

So, I'd give her that call. Naturally, I speak differently with girls than I do with my guy friends. You're more in tune with her than you would be with other girls as well. I recall my tone of voice was always more sweet towards my ex. I'd let her feel me out over the phone, sweet talk her, then drop the ball.

I'd start off with the call: (pay attention to how long it takes for her to answer)
- she answers

Heyyy (extend) how's it going? Just wanted to see what you were up too, I had some free time (girls like when you call/talk to them on your free time
- she responds (pay attention to her tone, if she over-extends means she wants the duration of the conversation to last longer)

If she's free and available to talk:
- I just wanted to be honest to you, I honestly had this on my mind (again, flattery), and I had to get it off my chest because I'm a pretty straight person.

* continue without her making a remark to cut me off because that's awkward

You really distract me, in a good way, I'd really like to continue that
- she answers

That's a start. You just feel your way throughout her responses and how the conversation is going. There's no real way to plan anything out. It just pans out.

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

Also, if the girl isn't a talker and SHE'S socially not capable of upholding conversations, you BETTER feel her out before you take her out and that happens. You're prone to be into a position where you'd have to either bring that out or find yourself being unable to socialize with her.

That's your first warning. If this happens, your natural instincts should kick in and you should feel yourself out. Gain experience under your belt understanding how to bring it out of someone by BRINGING IT OUT OF YOU first.

I hope shes talkative.

[Draz]

At the end of the day, back when I just got out of HS, I wasn't looking as good as I did now. I was decent, but not how I am now. I realized, what got me girls was how sweet I was. As I started maturing and aging, I got more conceited and it came with the character I built. I hooked girls through lust, not through their love for my personality. I started being less of a personality, and more of an appearance.

And now that I am single, I'm understanding I come off very bad to girls just the way I look, I look intimidating (so most girls tell me). Don't do this. Smile, when you're in public, don't have a sleep face. Someone's always looking at you, keep that in mind.

The only transaction you EVER need to make with a girl, is a simple conversation, it can be 2 seconds, hi, bye, you've made it. From there you carry on slowly.

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

At the end of the day, back when I just got out of HS, I wasn't looking as good as I did now. I was decent, but not how I am now. I realized, what got me girls was how sweet I was. As I started maturing and aging, I got more conceited and it came with the character I built. I hooked girls through lust, not through their love for my personality. I started being less of a personality, and more of an appearance.

And now that I am single, I'm understanding I come off very bad to girls just the way I look, I look intimidating (so most girls tell me). Don't do this. Smile, when you're in public, don't have a sleep face. Someone's always looking at you, keep that in mind.

The only transaction you EVER need to make with a girl, is a simple conversation, it can be 2 seconds, hi, bye, you've made it. From there you carry on slowly.


:bowdown: :bowdown: You keep dropping knowledge on me

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

Thank you guys so much for the tips. Now it's all about executing and actually approaching her. Didn't expect to get this much help.

I will update this as soon as possible to tell you guys how it goes.

[JEFFERSON MONEY]

Try to talk with your other buddies and girls you're not attracted to before her.

Warm-up well enough and you'll flow in transition.

Also, Vector, as a person who has way too much energy in the head, I'd highly advise practicing anything that empties you.

[Draz]

The thing is, as a man, it's all about playing chess/checkers. My first ex, I played that game with her. I read her language. Her tone. Her texts. Her calls. I read every pattern. I diagnosed arguments, temper, the good, the bad, anything that could be diagnosed, was. Every response was a pattern I used to trigger different emotions, when to trigger, how it effected her, how often I rewarded her, I conditioned her. The way I wanted her to be. At the same time, I was chill, I was calm, I was collective, I was lax.

With my second ex, I went with my guts and feelings, not my head. My heart did all the thinking. She was the first girl I loved, first girl I built feelings for through my subconscious. I built a foundation that I felt was fine to implement no techniques or games. I lost my mind, she played mind games with me, she knew how to effect me, trigger me, knew how to get good and bad results, she restricted me, she read me like an open book.

This will NEVER happen again. And I write this to let everyone know, never let your guard down. Keep playing that game. Entertain the idea you read them and always have a poker face, without even making it blunt. You'll find better results thinking with your senses than your feelings.

[Smook A.]

Thank you guys so much for the tips. Now it's all about executing and actually approaching her. Didn't expect to get this much help.

I will update this as soon as possible to tell you guys how it goes.
Go get that girl! http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-lX5leyrnSb4/Tv5TjIVEKfI/AAAAAAAAAi0/GR6QxObL5kM/s400/wink%2Bemoticon.png

[Bosnian Sajo]

This will NEVER happen again. And I write this to let everyone know, never let your guard down. Keep playing that game. Entertain the idea you read them and always have a poker face, without even making it blunt. You'll find better results thinking with your senses than your feelings.

Great advice for the dudes on the board in this thread, but as for this last bit, only take this advice if your goal is to hook up or just a fun little relationship. If you want something serious with someone, to have a real relationship, you will need to let your guard down. If not, you will always be the player and they will be the played. Again, which is good if the goal is hooking up or just a playful, nonserious relationship (btw she doesn't need to know it's not serious :lol ).

[!@#$%Vectors!@#]

The thing is, as a man, it's all about playing chess/checkers.
With my second ex, I went with my guts and feelings, not my head. My heart did all the thinking. She was the first girl I loved, first girl I built feelings for through my subconscious. I built a foundation that I felt was fine to implement no techniques or games. I lost my mind, she played mind games with me, she knew how to effect me, trigger me, knew how to get good and bad results, she restricted me, she read me like an open book.

This will NEVER happen again. And I write this to let everyone know, never let your guard down. Keep playing that game. Entertain the idea you read them and always have a poker face, without even making it blunt. You'll find better results thinking with your senses than your feelings.


This Actually scared me. I wouldn't want to be manipulated. Especially since I have like no prior experince. I like being in control of my emotions and myself at all times. Which contributes tot he reason i don't drink or smoke anything.

The prospect of being emotionally unstable and strung along is scary as fk.

[1987_Lakers]

This Actually scared me. I wouldn't want to be manipulated. Especially since I have like no prior experince. I like being in control of my emotions and myself at all times. Which contributes tot he reason i don't drink or smoke anything.

The prospect of being emotionally unstable and strung along is scary as fk.

It's gonna happen, in case you didn't know women are bat shit crazy.

[nathanjizzle]

NO NO NO NO, STOPPP. Do not take any advice on one liners or how smooth you should be. a simple "hi" will suffice. there is too much pressure to say the right things, when that is not necessary. Reality is you can have a pretty basic convo and it would still be a memorable one for her since she was engaged by a stranger.

[Bosnian Sajo]

NO NO NO NO, STOPPP. Do not take any advice on one liners or how smooth you should be. a simple "hi" will suffice. there is too much pressure to say the right things, when that is not necessary. Reality is you can have a pretty basic convo and it would still be a memorable one for her since she was engaged by a stranger.


Not if you come off as a nervous wreck or a thirsty slob. I agree you don't NEED to be smooth, one of my friends is goofy af and boarderline creepy, but he gets more bitches than the lot of us.

[raprap]

Offer her weed. Everyone likes weed :pimp:

[Bandito]

Honestly. There's this girl in my class, it's my second semester being single. How I'd approach her, is, when we're both on break and I notice she's by herself, I'd confront her. I'll get straight to the point because I'm pretty straight forward, granted that you're approaching her it's a given that you're interested in her, might as well skip a few stages and get on with it.

I'd say, excuse me, what's your name again?
- answers
I just wanted to let you know you're gorgeous (flatter her) and maybe if its possible we can get to know each other as friends (mentioning friends to show I'm not pushy nor trying to risk being turned down if she had a boyfriend)
- if her answer is she has a bf, I'd say that's completely fine, I respect that (shows I'm not pushy or grimy) perhaps we can help each other study for quiz's or exam's, assignments (I'm sure she wouldn't mention she has a bf because I'm only asking to get to know her as a friend, unless she's a VERY faithful girl who blocks outsiders and overprotective over her relationship)
if her answer is sure (given that I'm still unsure if she has a bf or not) I'd exchange numbers right there and then, to sooner or later find out through taking it to the phone, that one call, be buddy-buddy with her, show I'm more interested in getting to know her as a person and not seem objective based for wanting a relationship (because AFTER ALL, you ARE as equal to her if not BETTER, and you want whats best for yourself, don't make this all about her)

That's just one thing I'd do. There's several other ways to approach a girl. Several other ways to play it cool, be smooth, etc.
Last time I did that she left me there and walked away from me laughing histerically. That was a weird afternoon :lol

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Update going to see her today for sure.

Will update later today. This is to make sure I go through with it.

Wish me Luck!:rockon: :rockon:

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[MP.Trey]

idk, I usually carry around a wad of $100's and magnum condoms, when I see her I pretend they accidentally fell in front of her so she can see them. :pimp:
Haha I like to keep a box of magnums in the glove box. Then conveniently leave something I need in there, like a phone charger or something. Ask her to grab the charger for me, and then she knows what she's dealing with. :pimp:

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Haha I like to keep a box of magnums in the glove box. Then conveniently leave something I need in there, like a phone charger or something. Ask her to grab the charger for me, and then she knows what she's dealing with. :pimp:
:lol :lol :lol

[ArbitraryWater]

Haha I like to keep a box of magnums in the glove box. Then conveniently leave something I need in there, like a phone charger or something. Ask her to grab the charger for me, and then she knows what she's dealing with. :pimp:

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nice one, will keep it in mind..