Does your lady make you "earn it"?
In other words, does she keep score on how you treated her during the day, then decides on whether or not you're getting any?
Or does she just give it up, no questions asked?
I had a girlfriend once who would just give it up spontaneously. We'd be in t he kitchen at noon, and she'd just decide it was time to get it on. And she wanted it everyday, sometimes twice a day.
I married a different lady who now makes me earn it. If I was rude to her, I'm not getting any. If I was very attentfull to her needs, then I get some.