been living with my woman for over a year now and she doesn't make me "earn" anything...even BJs are no issue
however we have a newborn right now which has caused our sex life to slow down significantly...we are so tired all the time
Once he starts sleeping entire nights we should be back to a more regular schedule I think...
I would be lying though if I said I wasn't worried about where our sex life will be in 5-10 years from now...we plan on having one more boy, and after that I can see it just draining the life right out of us...I hope all remains good, but I guess I'll just have to wait and see...only time will tell