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Old 05-16-2009, 11:33 AM   #1
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Default The exaggerated idea of black men being with white chicks

I had a disagreement with my ex a few days ago. She has this very false and exaggerated belief that black guys with potential and unaccomplished are "down with the sistas", yet when they become successful those same brothers are quick to kick to black girls to the curb just to get a white girl on their arm.

She is far from the first person I know to have this belief. While it may a true to some extent, but it's nowhere near as prevalent as they make it out to be. I asked her for some examples. She stutters and then says: "Well look at all the black athletes or the NBA." I ask her to name some people (other than Barkley) and she was stumped. Hell, damn near every black player in the league has either a black wife or fiance and NBA players are perhaps the most visible celebrities around.

Just another example of why some women try to justify why men don't want them.
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Old 05-16-2009, 11:56 AM   #2
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Statements like that just shows that subconsciously most black women feel inferior to white women when it comes to beauty.
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Old 05-16-2009, 01:11 PM   #3
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Default Re: The exaggerated idea of black men being with white chicks

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Statements like that just shows that subconsciously most black women feel inferior to white women when it comes to beauty.
lol it has nothing to do with beauty or being inferior. but i do think its attitude. ive exclusively dated black women. and i firmly believe that for the most part you cant tell them anything. and its funny how they always complain about not being able to get a good man but when they do, they wont let us be men. and thats the fault of black men (fathers) not raising their daughters and allowing the mother to basically be the man of the house. its all they know. but this is the reason succesful black men prefer other races.
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Old 05-16-2009, 01:30 PM   #4
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Keep the white woman I like black girls or any girls with color.
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Old 05-16-2009, 02:24 PM   #5
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it is what it is, who cares
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Old 05-16-2009, 02:32 PM   #6
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Kanye West said the something about it in Golddigger. "But when you get on he leave yo ass for a white girl"
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Old 05-16-2009, 02:37 PM   #7
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Kanye West said the something about it in Golddigger. "But when you get on he leave yo ass for a white girl"


i will literally lol if barack obama does that to michelle. *here's hoping*
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Old 05-16-2009, 03:00 PM   #8
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lol it has nothing to do with beauty or being inferior. but i do think its attitude. ive exclusively dated black women. and i firmly believe that for the most part you cant tell them anything. and its funny how they always complain about not being able to get a good man but when they do, they wont let us be men. and thats the fault of black men (fathers) not raising their daughters and allowing the mother to basically be the man of the house. its all they know. but this is the reason succesful black men prefer other races.


Sad...but true. In this society, a black dude will get to a certain level and start looking towards other races because that's what he feels like he worked hard for....

But you know what's even worse? Black dudes getting with light skinned women over darker skinned women. ****s messed up but hey...that's how it is I guess.
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Old 05-16-2009, 03:15 PM   #9
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i think it might be too that it's just more noticeable. like you don't really notice a white guy with a white girl, a mexican guy with a mexican girl, a black guy with a black girl.. but when it's a black guy and a white girl it's just like a huge contrast which might be what makes it stick out.
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Old 05-16-2009, 03:23 PM   #10
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None of the statements on this topic have been true at all. There is no inherent underlying desire for white girls amongst male minorities. It's a blatantly obvious desire for chocha amongst all heterosexual males. That's what it all comes down to, as men, we like to divide and conquer *****es. Regardless of color. We may all have certain preferences of color, whether it be skin, hair, or eye. But I have yet to meet a man that refuses to go outside of his general preferences. Because there's so many different variables that contribute to the makings of a bad *****, that you are doing yourself an injustice by shutting out whatever aspect. And I think most men realize that, or just don't care enough and just wanna get their dick wet.

The only reason for seeing so many interracial couples (especially white girls and males of a different color) is not only because it's 2009 and widely accepted, but also, rap music and gangsta flicks and the thug life, and some extent of minority culture or a minstrel show version of it became an epidemic and swept the suburbs. And that got the attention of white girls. So it became easier to pull em, because they were infatuated by rap music and their suburban male counterparts couldn't invoke that same feeling of danger and excitement by just wearing Fubu. They wanted "thugs", and they made themselves readily available to conquer. And as men, we were flocked by girls pretty much throwing the punani at us with minimal efforts (as opposed to the black and latina girls still waitin for us to go take em to get their hair and nails done an ****) and we all said "Well, hey, **** it." and we did. And some of them were even willing to be the one in the "relationship" to cash you out, which was a cherry on top of the relatively effortless punani.

And now you know.
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Old 05-16-2009, 03:42 PM   #11
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Default Re: The exaggerated idea of black men being with white chicks

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Statements like that just shows that subconsciously most black women feel inferior to white women when it comes to beauty.

well they live in a society telling them that since they are born...it it not unexpected
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Old 05-16-2009, 03:55 PM   #12
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well they live in a society telling them that since they are born...it it not unexpected


Sure...in the the 1950's.
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Old 05-16-2009, 04:04 PM   #13
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Sure...in the the 1950's.

seriously? you're saying this culture doesn't overvalue white women?
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Old 05-16-2009, 04:05 PM   #14
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seriously? you're saying this culture doesn't overvalue white women?

Can we say undervalues the black woman...or minority females in general?

Instead of putting down a group of people? Maybe?
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Sure...in the the 1950's.

black women have it hard...they are pretty much told all of their natural facial features are bad and that they need to strive to white features.
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