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Old 03-16-2013, 04:31 AM   #1
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Default My GF is getting too fat

I have a situation. I've been dating this girl for 7 years. I really think I want to marry her and I told her so. Well now she is getting a bit too comfortable in the relationship.

The other night, we were getting it on, and the bed f*cking broke. The next morning, through a bit of digging, I found out she weighs over 200 pounds now. Keep in mind, she was a sexy 140 when we dated.

So how exactly do I tell her to lose weight. That was like a $400 bed set and I can't afford buying new beds. That's as bad as the time when I bought the first set of Xbox 360s and they would only last for a couple of months.

How do you tell a girl to lose weight without offending her. She knows she's fat, I know she's fat, all her friends know she's fat, heck, even her dead auntie is visiting her in her dreams telling her she's fat, but it's just a topic of conversation I just can't bring up directly.

I still love her, but damn, she needs to lose a few pounds because that love is going to dwindle when another expensive bed set is broken. Sorry if I sound superficial, but this is a serious problem in our relationship.
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:04 AM   #2
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200 muthaf*cking pounds?
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:13 AM   #3
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200 pounds? U can't be serious. Show us a pic of before and after
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Old 03-16-2013, 06:46 AM   #4
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LMFAO 200lbs? Holy shit.. You should go for runs and suggest she comes with you. Or start going to the gym and make up some shit about how it would be fun if she went with you. Do things together and it'll help encourage her.
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Old 03-16-2013, 07:49 AM   #5
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Old 03-16-2013, 07:55 AM   #6
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Default Re: My GF is getting too fat

whoa when I read the title i was gonna say something along the lines of "youre a douchebag, you shouldnt care blah blah blah" but gaining 60 lbs is crazy.

Do you weigh a lot? maybe she feels like she can get away with it.

The best way is to offer to do a "couples fitness/yoga/pilates" course together or something, like make it seem like you want to spend more time with her. I'm sure if you can find out a way to find out her weight then you can figure out a way to ask her
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Old 03-16-2013, 07:58 AM   #7
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Default Re: My GF is getting too fat

If you are dating someone for seven years and not married ditch them and start over. SEVEN YEARS?

Aside from that tell her the truth. She's getting big and it's unhealthy and you're not going to stay around to watch her get sicker and sicker.

OP is a chubby chaser...
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Old 03-16-2013, 08:01 AM   #8
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Default Re: My GF is getting too fat

Man. You fcked up.

As the man you set the tone in the relationship.

I remind my girl probably once a week to stay fit. I don't let her eat junk food, and if we're out to eat she can have good food obviously, but I won't let her order soup, an appetizer, entree and dessert. I tell her how I don't tolerate that and won't have a fat girlfriend. It's in her head now.

i refuse to be one of those dudes in public with his girl, and she eats more than me, or just course after course of already super fat restaurant food. Females are tiny dude, all they need is a salad with some chicken in there. Anything else is over eating.

Girls want to look good for their men but if you ain't laying the law down or making her feel sexy, this is what happens.
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Old 03-16-2013, 08:02 AM   #9
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if you dont already have a gym membership, get 2 of them. tell her she needs to work out.
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Old 03-16-2013, 08:08 AM   #10
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Default Re: My GF is getting too fat

Dude 200lbs is obese btw

And you two, or mostly her, broke the bed??? Man

Did you wake up today and just decide it was a great day to make a thread that completely disses yourself?

This thread is gold. Refer to my original post in here to prevent this problem in the future before new girl becomes obese too.

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Old 03-16-2013, 08:29 AM   #11
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Chubby chasers unite
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Old 03-16-2013, 08:41 AM   #12
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Default Re: My GF is getting too fat

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I have a situation. I've been dating this girl for 7 years.




So how exactly do I tell her to lose weight.


after 7 years,... you should have no problem telling her straight up.
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Old 03-16-2013, 09:12 AM   #13
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after 7 years,... you should have no problem telling her straight up.


+1


talk to her about it. tell her it's on your mind. plant that seed.


i was in a similar situation in my last relationship.

i ended up hurting her feelings. we broke up soon afterward.

but i had to say something. i started to resent her. i'd cringe every time she overate.
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Old 03-16-2013, 09:49 AM   #14
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Default Re: My GF is getting too fat

Just tell her that she's overweight but don't tell her she's fat though. Or heck just tell her that you're both getting fat and you both need to go to they gym and eat healthier because you want to spend more time with her when you both get older.
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Old 03-16-2013, 09:53 AM   #15
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how big are you?

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