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Old 04-25-2013, 12:47 AM   #1
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Default Any guys here hook up with a married woman?

A married client (33 years old, I'm 26) at my work added me on Facebook after a coworker told her I said I had been checking her out. A week later, we're basically talking all day and flirting to the point that it could probably get me killed if her husband were to read it. Her best friend is a client of ours too, and says she has a happy marriage with a good guy. But today she just asked for my number. I sent it to her, then regretted it instantly...just another way to get caught. It's bad enough we've been talking so much, I don't know how she's possibly spending time with her husband at all. My brain's telling me to back off, but unfortunately my dick's driving the car right now and I think I've got a good shot at this. Anyone else here ever been in a situation like this? And what did/would you do?


EDIT: There's no kids in the picture if it makes a difference.
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Old 04-25-2013, 12:59 AM   #2
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inb4 married dude responds with "yeah... my wife"
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Old 04-25-2013, 01:04 AM   #3
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Client? What are you a prostitute?
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Old 04-25-2013, 01:04 AM   #4
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Yeah.
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Old 04-25-2013, 01:16 AM   #5
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inb4 Meticode
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Old 04-25-2013, 01:31 AM   #6
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A married client (33 years old, I'm 26) at my work added me on Facebook after a coworker told her I said I had been checking her out. A week later, we're basically talking all day and flirting to the point that it could probably get me killed if her husband were to read it. Her best friend is a client of ours too, and says she has a happy marriage with a good guy. But today she just asked for my number. I sent it to her, then regretted it instantly...just another way to get caught. It's bad enough we've been talking so much, I don't know how she's possibly spending time with her husband at all. My brain's telling me to back off, but unfortunately my dick's driving the car right now and I think I've got a good shot at this. Anyone else here ever been in a situation like this? And what did/would you do?


EDIT: There's no kids in the picture if it makes a difference.
you are scum if you go through with this, and karma will come back to bite you in the ass. you don't fuck with a man's family.
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Old 04-25-2013, 01:37 AM   #7
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A married client (33 years old, I'm 26) at my work added me on Facebook after a coworker told her I said I had been checking her out. A week later, we're basically talking all day and flirting to the point that it could probably get me killed if her husband were to read it. Her best friend is a client of ours too, and says she has a happy marriage with a good guy. But today she just asked for my number. I sent it to her, then regretted it instantly...just another way to get caught. It's bad enough we've been talking so much, I don't know how she's possibly spending time with her husband at all. My brain's telling me to back off, but unfortunately my dick's driving the car right now and I think I've got a good shot at this. Anyone else here ever been in a situation like this? And what did/would you do?


EDIT: There's no kids in the picture if it makes a difference.

It's not your responsibility to keep her marriage together. Go for it.
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Old 04-25-2013, 01:45 AM   #8
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i didn't know she was married, so i guess it didn't count
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Old 04-25-2013, 01:47 AM   #9
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A married client (33 years old, I'm 26) at my work added me on Facebook after a coworker told her I said I had been checking her out. A week later, we're basically talking all day and flirting to the point that it could probably get me killed if her husband were to read it. Her best friend is a client of ours too, and says she has a happy marriage with a good guy. But today she just asked for my number. I sent it to her, then regretted it instantly...just another way to get caught. It's bad enough we've been talking so much, I don't know how she's possibly spending time with her husband at all. My brain's telling me to back off, but unfortunately my dick's driving the car right now and I think I've got a good shot at this. Anyone else here ever been in a situation like this? And what did/would you do?


EDIT: There's no kids in the picture if it makes a difference.

Don't mix business with pleasure. If you do hook up and it goes sour and she blabs to your company you could be out on your ass. I always weight the worst case scenario before I go in on anything.
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Old 04-25-2013, 01:55 AM   #10
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Don't mix business with pleasure. If you do hook up and it goes sour and she blabs to your company you could be out on your ass. I always weight the worst case scenario before I go in on anything.

Won't go all the way to say not mix business with pleasure (case by case basis) but in this case ravor has it right.

She's a client. Don't hook it up.
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Old 04-25-2013, 02:01 AM   #11
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Dive right in bro.
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Old 04-25-2013, 02:11 AM   #12
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If shes in a happy marriage and here you are tempting her to go cheat on her husband with you, then you are just trying to fk up their marriage. Some people on here cheering you on have no sense of moral or values. Everyone have desires and temptations, and some won't have the strength to suppress them. It is honestly up to you whether you want to take advantage of this or help them.
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Old 04-25-2013, 02:17 AM   #13
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If shes in a happy marriage and here you are tempting her to go cheat on her husband with you, then you are just trying to fk up their marriage. Some people on here cheering you on have no sense of moral or values. Everyone have desires and temptations, and some won't have the strength to suppress them. It is honestly up to you whether you want to take advantage of this or help them.

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Old 04-25-2013, 02:19 AM   #14
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week later, we're basically talking all day and flirting to the point that it could probably get me killed if her husband were to read it.

so what exactly was written?
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Old 04-25-2013, 02:27 AM   #15
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the fact that she's married aside, you're saying she is a client. Sex can complicate things. Use the don't mix business with pleasure excuse and back off.
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